Can I just ask has anybody ever had a "No strings fun" encounter ? My experience is that love always seems to have some kind of condition attached or some consequence or issue with it. There is maybe the drunked one nighter where your so blatherd you can only just string a sentance together and you remember very little about what went on. Did you actually have love with them or just throw up on the duvet and fall asleep. I dont recall those times as being fun though just tacky.

I have a few times....the only problem being when I saw them next and they wanted to do it again and I didnt. That can be awkward and a pain in the arse.

Therefore strings attached yes?

I did once where it was incredibly beneficial. I hated love, thought it was dirty. Then I left my 1st husband. 7 months later I had a one night stand, not the most exciting love I've ever had but something seemed to click in my head and have enjoyed it ever since.

It's possible but it's rare. The point being that one party is always going to be more emotionally attached to the idea than the other.
And, as far as I'm aware, you're not going to shag someone who you don't fancy so emotions are already there anyhow. It's how you choose to deal with them afterwards that can lead to problems.
I don't think I consider a one-night stand to be the same as no strings fun, though. I thought that one-night stands were mainly created from beer goggles and no strings fun was pre-arranged.

strings attached usually involve a visit to the clinic

On reflection if there is any young lady out there can disprove my theory and they can have love without strings ( I dont mean bondage) do feel free to contact me.

my experiences have been pretty pain free. There was definitely emotions involved other than just shagging, and not entirely pain free, but worth it & we remain friends. In some ways it helped moving on because the split wasn't my choice, so sudden & unexpected. The gap of a few months before the fun helped too. I kept hold of my belief it was over, and was looking elsewhere.

Maybe it's a conditioning thing where the more casual encounters you have the easier it becomes to walk away. I tried it once and she cried her eyes out in the morning, i felt awful. I think as the night went on and the alcohol wore off we actually quite liked each other and were very suited but she had to go back to uni the next day.

I've had quite a few no-strings attached. For the most part, it works out quite well. There's been the odd awkward one, but most of the time it's just pure letting off some steam affairs.

The main problem I've had is when one partner wants more love, and the other has moved on. That can get kind of awkward. But mainly it's been stress free.

It's possible and it's fun. love isn't as sacred as people make out, and theres nothing wrong with just letting go and giving in to a bit of pure lust. So long as there are ground rules and you both fully know where you stand it's fine.

It should be like dropping the H-Bomb: short, intense and no going back there for a little while so you avoid the fallout. Knowing you have it on tap is enough. It beats the shit out of 'saving yourself' anyway. And it keeps you feeling alive.

I must be a totally a-moral girl. I think you can always detach yourself from situations it really depends on what your looking for in life. Sometimes its not practical to have a relationship but everyone has needs so what do you do? In my experience it is rare tho because someone will always get more attached but if you set boudaries and both parties know what they want ive found it works most of the time.

Yes, but I'm still particular about who with etc.