Hi I'm a genuine married guy of 36, I consider myself quite good looking, slim, fit very respectable, up front and reliable. I have laid my cards on the table so to speak and have been completely honest in my profile stating that I am looking for a lady (yes one !!) who would like to enjoy what I have to offer perhaps on a regular no strings basis.
I have been in 2 long term relationships and I am now married, but feel like I missed out on some of my youth and the physical side in particular.
I don't consider myself to be inexperienced either, far from it, but I can't figure out why there are no ladies contacting me or replying to my emails to say hello, maybe introduce themselves so that we can have a chat exchange photo's and then see what happens, I mean wouldn't you think that a lady would like to feel secure with a guy before taking things further, what do you think, am i making any sense or not !!

Ray

it's good to be honest dude and that's the best way - but i would think the fact that you are married has alot to do with it. No way should you lie about it though ! But i wouldn't put myself into that situation and i'm sure a few peeps on here wouldn't either.

See, I dont get you, I am 50 years old, sexual, very sexy,bold and sassy, but why would I want to get involved with a genuine married man. If your not happy at home maybe there needs to be more communication on your part with your wife. There are alot of single men out there that us ladies would much prefer SORRY FOR YOU AND YOUR WIFE

lol.........girls are probably reading it thinking how they would feel if they had a husband who was on a dating site looking for no strings fun.......i persoanlly would go bollistic. Just coz you ahve been honest that doesnt cancel out the fact that your made your marriage vows to that person........sorry to get all moral, but basically you want you cake and to eat it.......Im sure there are girls who would take up the offer, but doesnt really say alot for their own self respect does it!..

grrrrrr, in fact i think its very arrogant to be disappointed at the lack of response from females on a dating site just coz euither realise u married the wrong woman or uneeds more sex....or whatever you feel you need.......its adultery mate!

so get real, stop acting the martyr and sort your life out!

From my experience being nice. Does not work. sadly the world does not work that way. genrally to be nice is to be a suplicating fool. which i no, gets you nowhere. women dont want a nice suck up, they want a man a strong powerful man, this is what they are mostly about (its hard to grasp i no). (i also have to mention that there are some girls out there that do genuanly like nice guys but seriously that is about 0.03% of the female population. a nice guy wants to prove himself worthy of a girls attention. a real Man does not care about the girls attention

Thats, not true Carlos, If I could find a man that was a genuinely nice person, then he probably has alot of respect for the opposite sex, family and tradition, but that doesnt mean hes not strong,protective and a wild man in the bedroom. lol

Alurea, you make a good point, but all men are nice to all women no matter what they do, so what is the difference between a nice guy and a good man?

Carlos, again I say a good man should be the same as a nice man, but I think you must have found the wrong women or a very young one. I remember when I was in my teens and early 20 yea I wanted the rebel type and the nice ones were too sweet for me, well guess what i screwed myself and learned. no offense to the young girls out there that feels the same as i do. carlos, lets talk check my profile send me message, maybe this american women can sort thru some of the crap for you. good luck

what strikes me is that youre honest on a dating site but not to your own wife.
Maybe you should consider other ways to improving your life other than all the hurt thats involved in having affairs etc.