I dont know if its just me, but i dont understand people who just want sex.
When my ex slept with other people behind my back she was like its was just sex nothing else.

I really could not just sleep with someone, espec a one night stand. The thought of people just giving it away like that turns my stomach.

I think its just me. Dunno, Dont get me wrong i love sex nothing wrong with a good fuck, but i prefer to do it with a person i am in a relationship with. I feel i can express myself sexually with that person.

Well it might just be my inexperiance, i'm 23 and only slept with 1 person who i was with for 6 years. Thinking about my ex doing it with other people repulses me.

The thing that annoys me the most is married people that do it, just meet up for sex and then go home to their partner and cuddle up in bed telling them that they love them and what knot. Its just wrong

Two of my friends, who have been happily married for about 30 years do this meeting with randoms for sex. Both ppl in the marriage know about it, and they are fine with it. As far as they are concerned its not wrong and its part of their life. So its not wrong for everyone.

Its not my cup of tea though at all.

It all depends on how you feel about the act of sex.

Some people see it as an activity, like squash or football, some tie it with love. The only time it becomes wrong in a relationship (imo) is when one or the other is doing it with someone else behind the others back.
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Although I have slept with quite a few girls, I do take into account some ethical considerations. One of these is that I don't get involved with girls who aren't single.

Although I am not aware of ever having being cheated on, I'm sure it must have happened at some point, and I wouldn't want to do that to some poor guy.

I have had all sorts of arguments put to me by girls in the past, the most notable of which is that the decision to cheat is theirs and that it's none of my business.

Apart from feeling bad about the 'victim' of the cheating, it also puts you in a vulnerable situation- what about if the guy found out and was a nutter? I'm not going to risk getting stabbed just to have sex.

On the subject of sex and emotional attachment, I find I am able to do either. It's nice to have sex with someone you care about, but I can easily separate the two in my mind.
I can quite happily have sex with a girl that I don't have feelings for, in fact I can do it with someone I don't even like.

Firstly I don't condon cheating in any way, shape or form. If you've made a commitment to one person you honor it. I've never done it and I expect the same respect in return.

As for one night stands however, that's an entirly different story. I've had a few. It's what I needed at that point in time and they were all great.

I think the real trick to one night stands is your mental and emotional state of mind. You have to be able to compartmentalize and see a differnce between sex and making love. If you don't then to me that shows a great strength of character and emotional maturity and discipline, and for that I have a great deal of respect.

But one night stand or not, sex should always mean something to you in some way and should never just be given away as you've said without some meaning.