Hi,

I've been married for 10 years and sex gets better every year but I've still feeling I want more. We make love once or twice a week and we've been there, don't and have the t-shirt but I like to make love more. My wife is not keen and its been an issue for the last 3 years.

I do not know if I'm being a pig????? I'd like to make love more often, I find fustrated, I look after myself once a day! I dream of making love to other women.

Is this wrong, stupid, selfish???

So advice would be grateful.

Si

I guess it depends on what kind of sex you've been having. Remember if you always do what you've done then you will always get what you've got. Have you tried old fashion seduction taking her out wine-ing and dining her? Women like a build up to the crescendo, one would do well to remember slow burning fires burn hotter for longer.
PS Katie15 You are hot.

Get her a rabbit, by Christ she'll orgasm then!

I guess life and routine get in the way of making love ... have you tried not making love to her?! Sounds crazy but on those 1 or 2 times a week when she does want it, don't give it to her!! Tease her, concentrate on foreplay with her, make sure she gets as much pleasure as possible but all without making love ... some guys think a quick poke here and there is all it takes but I'm afraid it's not!! If you tease her long enough, she will be begging for you to make love to her.

For times when she doesn't feel like making love, maybe she would help you 'look after yourself' as you say lol It shouldn't be all about sex, there's so many other things to do

Good luck!!

And if she has unfeasibly large hands then so much the better.