am thinking about hooking up with any young lady for no strings sex weither its a one night stand or not. am worried that it would degrade myself as a man. would it be a good idea to go through with it.

Depends on your reasons and whether or not you think you can live with it after.

I went through a phase late last year after breaking up with my boyfriend of having a few one-night stands. The last time I went through a phase like that was nearly 10 years ago and then it was only one one-night stand.

It was a kind of madness/release after years of generally being a very good girl It felt right at the time and I don't regret it. I didn't go too mad and didn't do it again once I felt I had fulfilled a need.

Only you can decide the right and wrong of it I'm afraid.



Oh, and 'hi' and welcome to the forums

I personally think that one night stands are not that fullfilling and are not necessarily that great. It's not something I've ever planned (and now older and wiser don't plan to do again) it just happend (drink fuelled). I end up feeling like sh*t not sure if that's just a woman thing as blokes have a way of switching off.

Why are you considering it as opposed to meeting someone you truly like not just for sex?

Also you wanna be making sure she is in it for the same reasons.

There's nothing wrong with that at all. As long as you're both single!

It isn't degrading yourself, in my opinion.

People do it all the time.

Oh I didn't take offence, just I like to fight for "team bloke" where I can hehehe
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lol i've been through the one night stand rebellion stage i didn't enjoy it as much as i thought though i much prefer a relationship

I never liked one night stands, you see if they were any good then I'd be interested in more...



how shallow I am

one nighters are great so long as the other person knows it aint gonna be anything more. i have had a few in my time and they were very enjoyable...... i think you can be more upfront during sex if you know you'll never kiss this person again...never hear the noises they make as you tease them.... never know the feel of them again.... you are more bold.

but...and i cannot stress this enough.......USE PROTECTION!!

haha....perhaps.

OF course it's right, so long as no-one gets hurt. This is 2006 not 1856!

Helena