Welcome to the board.

I dont think its that unusual....but maybe a bit extreme the way you describe it, talking about fantasy's about other women. Not sure I'd actually prefer it to sex though.

Nothing like a good wank when with a women

Someone mention wanking...Im a fooking expert in this field. Been studying it for quite a number of years.

i'll have to agree with tracey on this one.

there is somethin innately fascinating and sexy about seeing a man pleasuring himself for you.... but......... if he preferred it over sex i'd start to think there was something wrong with me.

well it is always good for keeping out the cold hehe but as for when the girlfriend is there probably not my key idea unless she is doing it for me so my hands be free for other things

(cigarette and a beer )

In my opinion, I have to say its not strange that he would wank a lot when he was with you, I think its quite common. men often seem to have a much higher sex drive than ladies, and you need to take the pressure off sometimes. he obviously enjoyed doing it in front of you and telling you his fantasies at the same time. He has probably got some exhibitionist tendencies within him, thus helps him get off.

I’m sure if you offered to do it for him though he would of loved it. As asking for a little relief can seem a bit wrong in a strange way. Also sometimes you want a quick wank, and not a love making experience which needs effort on both sides. It could have also been a non-verbal request for some action with you too though. I know its far too complicated. I’m not sure if that’s come out just right but im sure you get the jist.
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