why is there so many ppl that just want sex. no strings what is wrong with good old dating?. x

Theres a lot of guys who have seriously been hurt in their past! I think a lot of people dont really know the implication of the statements they are making plus present legislation makes a lot of guys fight shy of commitment or steady dating!!!! i wouldn't like to say what %s we are talking about but i promise you the are a lot of girls seeking the same thing!!!! Govt legislation is slowly killing off the institution of marriage by restrictive practices on men!!! There are guys on here who would love to date and take their time to develop a relationship you just have to find them thats all!!!!
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This guy is liscensed to chill, and thrill, but the opportunities to thrill are rather less than anticipated!!!!

We're shallow. (Naturally I'm excempt from this generalisation)
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"There comes a time when you look into the mirror and you realize that what you see is all that you'll ever be. Then you accept it... or you kill yourself. Or you stop looking into mirrors."
- Londo Mollari, Babylon 5

I like sex. Is it wrong to want sex?

Yes?

Oh.

Ok.

I dunno, I think that's a bit of a generalisiation.
I know plenty of wimmin who enjoy no strings attached sex!
Its healthy and fun, so long as every one involved knows thats what it is!
Lets face it, pulling someone in a pub/club is usually assumed to be a one nighter, no strings....
Or am I just easy

Tried the No strings thing but somehow I always end up falling into relationships. Maybe I'm just too nice?
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"There comes a time when you look into the mirror and you realize that what you see is all that you'll ever be. Then you accept it... or you kill yourself. Or you stop looking into mirrors."
- Londo Mollari, Babylon 5

some would call me an imposter, others would call me a gentleman

well i think we need more guys like u around my way mrlover6969. x

Personally I see sex as an expression of love for someone. So the no-strings thing doesn't appeal. (Unless I could fall in love for one night!!!!)

This may be my age though
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So whatever happened to true, feelings and emotions. Yes we all need sex to a degree, but i believe its wrong to be lustful. Are we all sex mad dykes ffs?? Well i know i;m not when i have sex i like to think i'm sharing my inner self with a person i know, not some random horny dogger. Is that so wrong ?? If your thinking i'm old fashioned n living in the past thats your issue not mine,i just value my body and that of the person i am sleeping with!!! Anyone can fuck , but to share the true value of love ya have to be emotionally secure. I think i differ from the norm, but who wants to be a sheeep??? , i'd much rather be a goat , cause i got more to offer than a finger of fudge to a ladie , n i like to make her feel special and wanted, just my opinion, i canny impose my views upon you , but just think!!!

There are just as many women who want no-strings sex and its naive to think that its just men. If you want to see the evidence then look a bit harder in these forums...

Here is on girl who isnt shy about what she wants

http://www.flirtbox.net/topic360.html

and another

http://www.flirtbox.net/topic275.html

I personally have had loads of messages from women asking for some no strings sex (im sure i am not alone in this). So as you can see lots of people both mena and women sometimes just want a shag without having to bother with the whole dating ritual.
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"You dont need to emerge from nothing - you dont need to tear away"

i heard this quote once that women use sex to get love, and men use love to get sex. i find it 2 b really true, and i think that it can b either sex's who use sex for instant gratification, some ppl hope to get more from it, others only want a one night thing, i find it depends on the oerson and the circumstance.