Not a lot I can say to that post, good luck in finding a woman who wants that much action!!

As Freda said very brave posting such personal information .......... i have seen a documentary on the subject but was about a women who had to orgasm about 50 times a day ....... people might see the funny side, but it ruined her life and relationships ....... Hope you get it sorted or find a girl that has the same drive as you .......

Thank you all for your thoughts. I wonder now if maybe it was a bad idea posting this on a site where I would like to meet people for some kind of a relationship. I think partly it was the blogger inside of me and I also have always been a very open and honest person as I think I have nothing to be ashamed of.

I also think because I have not yet had any professional help for it and the fact that its so rare, I am kind of desperate to find some one to talk about it and hoped posting here I might find some one who understands.

Although I have had hypersexuality for about 8 years, I think finding out that the problem exists only a few months ago, it has consumed me a bit. I need to remember I am me, I'm a nice guy, everyone has their problems and as far as problems go, this isn't such a bad thing.

The only thing that strikes me as maybe not such a positive thing about posting on here is this: You say you've had the problem for 8 years, that is you've diagnosed yourself and done bugger all to sort the problem.
See a doctor.
No one upon no one with a modicum of decency would hold your 'problem' against you, but 8 years is a long time to sit back ignore it. It obviously *is* a problem to you, else you wouldnt be here talking about it.
I hope you do find that 'someone special' on here, or who or whatever you seek, but you will have more success and understanding from others, surely, if you actively seek help for your problem ie go see a doctor.
I hope a doctor can help, good luck!

Like I said in my previous post, although I have had hypersexuality for 8 years, I only found it was a recognised problem a few months ago. Before I knew about hypersexuality I always just presumed I was just very horny. Also I hardly ever get sick, I never have colds, the flu, stomach bugs and all that stuff other people seem to get. I have seen a doctor 3 times in my life that I can remember and I'm 29 years old. I do plan to see a doctor about this but I just don't feel the need to rush out and do it. I'm on holiday for 2 weeks very soon and thought I would wait until I get back.

What I was saying is that you have self-diagnosed, it could be nothing to do with 'hypersexuality syndrome' - which is why it should be important to get a proper diagnosis asap.
Glad to hear it's not such a major problem for you that you don't feel the need to rush to the doctor yet.

Now see, my usual response to something like this, would be...wahey! My dream man....!! When we meeting?? But i realise that that would be totallyinnapropriate due to the sensitive nature of the problem.

As RG has said, seriously, you need to see the Doctor. There may be something you can take that may quash the urge slightly, without taking it away altogether.

I cant imagine feeling like that. I love love, and would do it all day every day if i could, but even i know there has to be a time when you stop. Like your ex did, sometimes you cannot physically take anymore, and as long as you are comfortable with someone you should be able to tell them that that time has come when you need to stop.

the only decent and worth while advice any one can (and has) given you, is go to the Doctor. Dont leave it until after your holiday, or next time your in town, or when it next bothers you. Do it now.

Hope this gets sorted hon, and also, whats wrong with sleeping with men and women? I understand for you it was merely an outlet which helped aleviate what must be hell for you, but it certainly isnt anything to be ashamed of.

We all have pasts.

Well as far as the doctor thing goes, part of the reason I'm leaving it until after my holiday is a plan on using it as much as possible over the 2 weeks I am away lol

I'm not ashamed of any thing in my past. The reason I don't like talking about some things is people may have a hard time understanding it and take it the wrong way.

Thank you for your post anyway.

HELLO LADIES

I wonder if I have the same condition.....

Thankfully im not AS bad..
But yes, i hope you find someone who fits your needs!

As you've already said, it inteferes with your life. It'll only get worse if you don't do anything about it. I know a young who coupled with the constant masturbation, found his emotions became extreme. He was eventually diagnosed with excessive hormones (I'm no expert and can't remember the full details so tho' very basic a description, it was likely far more complicated than that).

And don't be put off if initially your doc doesn't take you seriously. You may have to tell them EVERYTHING to be taken seriously. It's the kind of condition where a number of guys may wonder what the problem is, maybe even a few women

Good luck dealing with it, and hope you're having a great holiday.
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