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Home >> Sex >> Hypersexuality
05.09.2008, 12:59 quote
I was going to introduce myself first but as the forum is the only part working for me I thought I might as well just get stuck in.
I "suffer" from Hypersexuality. What is it? Well this description from Wiki kind of explains it in short:
| Quote: |
| Hypersexuality is the desire to engage in human sexual behaviour at a level high enough to be considered clinically significant. Hypersexuality is characterized by a debilitating need for frequent genital stimulation which, once achieved, may fail to result in the expected long-term sexual—or emotional—satisfaction. This dissatisfaction is what is believed to encourage the heightened frequency of sexual stimulation, as well as additional physiological and neurological symptoms. |
How do I know I have it? Well you see, I am quite different than most men when it comes to sex. I'm 29 years old and by now should past the frequency of masturbation that young men get. Having no sexual partner at the moment I need to masturbate (and going without is unbearable as I will explain later) and this for me means I can some times do it up to 12 times a day complete with orgasms. Probably on average I do it about 3-4 (each time lasting between 1-2 hours) times a day. No matter how much I do it though I can never feel satisfied.
When I do find some one to sleep with it may seem like a blessing to most men but for me it can be very frustrating. The last time was with a girl I loved very much. We made love for 50 hours non-stop. When I say non-stop I mean it (apart from toilet breaks) as unlike most men, after I orgasm I carry on going, it never goes soft. After the 50 hours she could not physically take it any more but I just wanted more and more. I am starting to wonder if I will ever meet anyone who can satisfy my sexual needs.
A quicky for me is just not possible.
Then there is the major problem of what happens when I don't give myself some kind of constant sexual pleasure. If I leave it after a day I go crazy, I usually end up doing some thing very stupid that I regret later. Almost like a mini manic episode.
It also has its other effects on my life for example, it changes my thoughts so that I am always thinking about sex and have trouble with my female friends as I find it near impossible not to have constant sexual thoughts about them.
Anyway, does anyone else have or think they may have hypersexuality and if so how do you live with it?
05.09.2008, 13:16 quote
This is very interesting. It must be awful for you, but still it's fascinating. I don't have hypersexuality but I was diagnosed with bipolar disorder. In my case I had hypomanic phases when I'd be euphoric for a few weeks and almost unable to sleep, and have loads of energy despite having little sleep. I also experienced a hugely increased labido, though nothing like what you describe.
Needless to say it was all very fun. The flipside is the disthymia, followed by depression. At those times I would be too tired to do anything and at worst suicidal.
Some people just ain't built proper...
05.09.2008, 13:36 quote
The research I've done on it has shown it to be quite common for those who are bipolar.
I have yet to tell my doctor. I'm going away for a couple of weeks soon and plan on doing that when I get back.
05.09.2008, 16:12 quote
Heh good question. I am a very light sleeper. In fact a few times I have woken up masturbating
06.09.2008, 13:39 quote
Is this genuine or one of those 'look at me, im a sex stud' presented in a cunning subliminal format via the guise of a sexual problem??!!
06.09.2008, 14:16 quote
No i'm serious and like I said, it's not always a good thing. It was part of the reason why I lost the girl of my dreams. Unless I can find another partner who is willing to put to with my relentless need for sex then its more of a burden.
There is another major part to this story but i'm going to post it later. Not in the mood right now.
06.09.2008, 15:56 quote
| Juzzy wrote: |
| Is this genuine or one of those 'look at me, im a sex stud' presented in a cunning subliminal format via the guise of a sexual problem??!! |
That's what I thought, but...
06.09.2008, 15:57 quote
| u4ric wrote: |
| No i'm serious and like I said, it's not always a good thing. It was part of the reason why I lost the girl of my dreams. Unless I can find another partner who is willing to put to with my relentless need for sex then its more of a burden.
|
You could always take a leaf out of Megalone's book and get a pet sheep.
06.09.2008, 17:24 quote
| moose666 wrote: | ||
You could always take a leaf out of Megalone's book and get a pet sheep. |
Erm think I will stick with the hand thanks
06.09.2008, 19:47 quote
Ok well I already shown my bum in another thread so this shouldn't be too hard.
About 4 years ago, still very horny, I was struggling to find woman to feed my relentless apatite. While on the tube home I was cruised by a guy who asked if I would like to go back to his place for some fun. A few hours later I had found a new way to get some action.
Here is the thing, I am not gay and never have been. I am not naturally turned on by men like I am with woman. I just did it to satisfy my thirst.
The next 3 years was spent in gay bars and clubs having a lot of fun. Then I met this fag hag who changed it all. We became best of friends, I fell in love with her and one day we had a naughty weekend together which ruined our friendship and now we no longer speak.
Having sex with some one I love and some one I thought I would spend the rest of my life with changed me in a lot of ways. One of those was for some reason I just can't go back to guys. It just dosn't work any more.
I don't regret it though, I had a lot of fun and met a lot of very nice people, most of whom are some of my best friends now.
Recently while doing some research on hypersexuality I found stories of other men who were not naturally gay that had done the same thing.
This is some thing I usually find hard to talk about among strangers as most can't understand and i'm never sure how people will judge me.
06.09.2008, 19:57 quote
Hi & welcome, I would just like to say I think you are very brave to come on here & post....there are a lot of understanding people on here & I for one would never judge you...hope you stick around & good luck with finding someone who meets your needs ![]()
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07.09.2008, 08:02 quote
Perhaps if you channeled that energy and drive into something more positive, like making money, you could be a very successful person? Or perhaps go into porn, they could always do with a good stayer! Seriously though, i doubt theres much you can do to cull that 'drive', you sound like a sex vampire! But perhaps somehow direct that energy into something else?
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