why do u wana delay orgasm..just cum again!!

That comment makes it seem like things are very grim up North.

Anyway to the question at hand........

Its good that you ask the question because it says you are concerned to ensure that your lover experiences sexual fulfillment as you do.

So for me the issue is not about lasting long its about ensuring that the woman you are with has a sexually fulfilling experience.

So whether that happens in 5 minutes or 5 hours the goal should be the same........what is the womans experience.

Now to be an accomplished lover is not instinctive it is a learned skill.

If you ejaculate to quickly try and learn the skills that you need to help prevent that happening.ie stopping until the sensation dies and then resuming again, exercising you keigel or pc muscle.

But whilst you are learning to gain better control, use the many other ways that exist to ensure that your woman will have a mind blowing sexual experience that will leave her completely satisfied.

Remember penetration is not the only way to give a woman pleasure.

Trawl the internet, buy books and educate yourself in the art of giving women pleasure.

X

Or you could just get an ugly girlfriend?
It would take ages then!
Mixed with a viagra or two you'll be at it forever.
ouch.raw!

You could abstain.
Mind you for most normal men, I cannot see that lasting too long.

Do you practice what you preech ??

Everytime I am on my own I abstain.

I find that having the lady on top helps things last longer! That and not worrying about how long you will last always makes me last for a good amount of time. The less I'm in control the better...

Masturbate furiously beforehand

Just joshing!

Evening,

I'm going with letting the girl on top reply or... slow down / change position?

I think if you "rub" one out so to say earlier, it might be hard some times to go again... some times anyway, depends on how horny you are I guess.

Best Regards,

If you think you are gonna cum just use it as an excuse to stop a couple of seconds to change position. If that fails or is not an option think of something uninspirational and unmoving... like the royal family