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25.03.2009, 09:49 quote

bbones
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i think she meant an orgasm


but yea it should last as long as the hard on

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25.03.2009, 10:00 quote

darkhorse57

koyelmitra wrote:
........Normal range is 3-5 min.


I disagree.

But then it depends on what one regards as ‘love’.

If one is speaking specifically of penetrative love, then, yes; it does vary according to many factors, and 3 - 5 minutes might possibly be quite average. I have to say, however, that I feel mightily sorry for anyone who feels the need to watch the clock! Personally speaking, I have had equally good love that lasted as little as a few minutes as I have when it lasted in excess of an hour (hey, I don’t watch the clock either! Well, except on a Wednesday night, but that's another story .....)

Having said that, I think one needs to look at the whole experience as being ‘love’ – i.e. foreplay, oral love, mid-session ‘fiddling’, afterplay, etc, etc - and it’s pretty difficult to say how long it *should* last, as it is dependent on so many things.

My opinion is that too many so-callled experts offering too many opinions about a ‘perfect love life’ in the media (TV, cheesy lifestyle magazines, etc) make people feel that they have to perform to a specific agenda, routine or time-table, which takes the spontaneity and intimacy out of the experience.

 

25.03.2009, 10:29 quote

abh1supernova

darkhorse57 wrote:
koyelmitra wrote:
........Normal range is 3-5 min.


I disagree.

But then it depends on what one regards as ‘love’.

If one is speaking specifically of penetrative love, then, yes; it does vary according to many factors, and 3 - 5 minutes might possibly be quite average. I have to say, however, that I feel mightily sorry for anyone who feels the need to watch the clock! Personally speaking, I have had equally good love that lasted as little as a few minutes as I have when it lasted in excess of an hour (hey, I don’t watch the clock either! Well, except on a Wednesday night, but that's another story .....)

Having said that, I think one needs to look at the whole experience as being ‘love’ – i.e. foreplay, oral love, mid-session ‘fiddling’, afterplay, etc, etc - and it’s pretty difficult to say how long it *should* last, as it is dependent on so many things.

My opinion is that too many so-callled experts offering too many opinions about a ‘perfect love life’ in the media (TV, cheesy lifestyle magazines, etc) make people feel that they have to perform to a specific agenda, routine or time-table, which takes the spontaneity and intimacy out of the experience.


cudnt hav agreed more..

 

25.03.2009, 20:57 quote

darkhorse57

Damn!!

Purely in the interest of research and accuracy for this topic, I meant to time the whole shebang (pardon the pun) tonight, but forgot to. Now I’ll have to do it all again.

 

25.03.2009, 21:02 quote

Cazzabee
Cazzabee Joined: 05 Jan 2006 Posts: 7246 Location: United Kingdom, Scotland, Fife
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Right DH...go for it NOW!!! I will time ya...

The clock is ticking Laughing Laughing

 

25.03.2009, 21:05 quote

darkhorse57

Cazzabee wrote:
Right DH...go for it NOW!!! I will time ya...

The clock is ticking Laughing Laughing


I'm on my own now, silly!

It'll have to wait till I get a willing visitor again.

 

25.03.2009, 21:11 quote

Cazzabee
Cazzabee Joined: 05 Jan 2006 Posts: 7246 Location: United Kingdom, Scotland, Fife
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Darn it.....right next time you must post before, during and after...all in the interests of research though I completely understand Laughing Wink

 

28.03.2009, 10:10 quote

barney683

guys have a few wanks before ur going to satisfy her, then you can last a lot longer, as ir not so excited first time round, or other option is take the blue pill, lol

 

29.03.2009, 04:50 quote

koyelmitra

I meant orgasm time range for an average male, now you see, I don't understand what the topic means by 'love'. Is that a full sexual intercourse? Then I can sit on his face for hours & I totally agree with the above, its a shame to look at the clock while having love.

 

30.03.2009, 11:13 quote

fireinmyheart
fireinmyheart Joined: 01 Oct 2008 Posts: 1598 Location: United Kingdom, England, Buckinghamshire
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If it includes foreplay, then as long as possible! I love to take time over love, quickys arent usually that exciting for me...

As far as penetration goes, that can vary, and I've never timed it.
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30.03.2009, 16:57 quote

sc0ttie

How long SHOULD it last? it shouldn't last any set time. simple as that. UT

 

30.03.2009, 17:07 quote

annmarie5988

Anywhere between 4 mins 59 second & 2 hours 59 mins has always been my ideal timescale .......... then after the foreplay the love begins ........... Razz Laughing

 

30.03.2009, 17:53 quote

justmejim70

Anything over 5 mins and your just spoiling her

 

01.04.2009, 19:49 quote

darkhorse57

Cazzabee wrote:
Darn it.....right next time you must post before, during and after...all in the interests of research though I completely understand Laughing Wink


Dear Cazzabee

Oooops, sorry, I forgot to time it again ..... silly me!

I remain
Yours most insatiably
Darkhorse (Esq)

 

03.04.2009, 16:54 quote

darkhorse57

29 minutes and 13 seconds




That is more than adequate to have applied considerate attention to all 23 erogenous zones and perform any physical duties necessary (anything after that is known as seconds). If the lady in question is thereafter able to stand up and walk unaided to the front door, or staggers less than twice, you have been remiss in your duties, and should immediately offer to make good your previous lack of attention to detail.

 
 
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