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30.07.2008, 12:39 quote

ash1986
ash1986 Joined: 28 Jul 2008 Posts: 3 Location: United Kingdom, England, Shropshire
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Ok I'm 22 and haven't had a lot of experience with sex, sure I've done it with girlfriends but nothing too exciting.

For the longest time I've had this fantasy about being in a pitch black room and there being lots of people just touching and having sex.

I was wondering, in reality does this kind of thing happen? I've just suspected that it does in a way, but in real life the whole thing would be much less spontaneous and you'd have to abide by rules of etiquette.

Another question is, knowing nobody who has ever been to an orgy type thing, how easy is it to get into the "scene" if you can call it that, for a single guy. I'm not even sure that I'd like it, but always wanted to try. I guess the number of guys probably outnumbers the ladies by 3-4 to 1 and that would probably be detrimental for the fact that I can't bring a girly along for the other guys to enjoy!

Anyway, hello to all on the forums, any help would be grateful! Smile

 

30.07.2008, 13:42 quote

rocketgirl
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[quote="ash1986"]that would probably be detrimental for the fact that I can't bring a girly along for the other guys to enjoy!quote]

If you cant find a 'girly' to be 'enjoyed' by others, why not take a bag of maltesers instead? Same difference, apparently - maltesers...a girly...anything as long as the lads enjoy "it" eh? Razz

 

30.07.2008, 13:59 quote

chikhai

Common myths shattered #69

There are more women in the 'scene' than you'd like to think.

Primarily because they get off on being treated like a sex object. Who'd have thunk it? Pure abandonment at the whim of another is pleasurable? Say it ain't so!

Shock and/or horror.

 

30.07.2008, 15:05 quote

ash1986
ash1986 Joined: 28 Jul 2008 Posts: 3 Location: United Kingdom, England, Shropshire
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rocketgirl wrote:
ash1986 wrote:
that would probably be detrimental for the fact that I can't bring a girly along for the other guys to enjoy!


If you cant find a 'girly' to be 'enjoyed' by others, why not take a bag of maltesers instead? Same difference, apparently - maltesers...a girly...anything as long as the lads enjoy "it" eh? Razz


Ah i worded that badly! By no means did i mean what you're implying, i know men and women are both there for the same reason! What i meant was that because i assumed the group sex "scene" was so male oriented, i wouldn't get such a warm welcome unless i was introducing myself with a girl too. The reason i've believed this upto now is because to me it seems obvious that there are more men looking for group experiences than women. In a few group and swingers clubs i looked up, membership for single guys is in the hundreds of pounds, whereas the same membership for single ladies or couples is free. Either that tells it's own story or i have completely misunderstood the reason why women can enter for free. Even this site it tells you in the top left corner there are 3 men to every woman signing up so I assume the same type of ratio would apply to what I was looking for. Anyway maltesers just aren't naughty enough, even the adverts tell you that!

 

30.07.2008, 16:15 quote

rocketgirl
rocketgirl Joined: 17 Jun 2008 Posts: 1806 Location: United Kingdom, England, Hampshire
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I've never looked into this, but Chikhai is probably right - I am imagining that fewer women have the nerve to be honest about it?
Oh, and if Maltesers aren't naughty enough for you how about M&Ms? Laughing

 
 
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