Ok I'm 22 and haven't had a lot of experience with sex, sure I've done it with girlfriends but nothing too exciting.

For the longest time I've had this fantasy about being in a pitch black room and there being lots of people just touching and having sex.

I was wondering, in reality does this kind of thing happen? I've just suspected that it does in a way, but in real life the whole thing would be much less spontaneous and you'd have to abide by rules of etiquette.

Another question is, knowing nobody who has ever been to an orgy type thing, how easy is it to get into the "scene" if you can call it that, for a single guy. I'm not even sure that I'd like it, but always wanted to try. I guess the number of guys probably outnumbers the ladies by 3-4 to 1 and that would probably be detrimental for the fact that I can't bring a girly along for the other guys to enjoy!

Anyway, hello to all on the forums, any help would be grateful!

[quote="ash1986"]that would probably be detrimental for the fact that I can't bring a girly along for the other guys to enjoy!quote]

If you cant find a 'girly' to be 'enjoyed' by others, why not take a bag of maltesers instead? Same difference, apparently - maltesers...a girly...anything as long as the lads enjoy "it" eh?

Common myths shattered #69

There are more women in the 'scene' than you'd like to think.

Primarily because they get off on being treated like a sex object. Who'd have thunk it? Pure abandonment at the whim of another is pleasurable? Say it ain't so!

Shock and/or horror.

I've never looked into this, but Chikhai is probably right - I am imagining that fewer women have the nerve to be honest about it?
Oh, and if Maltesers aren't naughty enough for you how about M&Ms?