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11.04.2007, 13:33 quote

Anonymous

twistedvoilet wrote:
wyche85 wrote:
Hi gang Very Happy

I was dating a girl, she really liked me, we went cinema and stuff,
then she was still sending me messages and we got along well, then she invited me to her place, said "I bet your a good kisser" and was leading me on.....

She lives in the hotel she works at, in central london, her room is in the basement area by the boilers, so it was 30*C or more!

We then started to make out on the bed, and not long,
(I don't want to get into all the gory details as this is not a porn site)
We had alot of forplay and I gave her some massages, then we did it!
it lasted for 10 mins or so....

Then afterwords, we had pizza, watched a film, I stayed over the night then went next morning....

All was good.. until I spoke to her on msn...
I said "did you miss me" she said "no"

Then this was one of her messages
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I was thinking about something that last longer, like 2 hours as im used to, i like the preliminars, you know, the kisses, carresses, lickings, but not going straight away to come inside me, wet me fastly because it never works and this is an advice im giving you for the next time you have your chance: dont go too fast.


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Just with your question you have showed me you dont have any experience in sex, I didnt mean 2 hours fucking inside me, i mean 2 hours in total.

Look, find yourself a sex book, read it and then you will understand when i tell you about 2 hours.


I do have experiance in sex, when she slept with 4 people in total, I have about 6 people in total, over a period from 18years old till now, i'm 21..

I do know forplay, and it seams that she was just really fussy, and did not want to see me, and took me off her myspace, becasue I did not do exactly like her EX!!!!

when I have been in a 2 year relationship, and was used to what my ex was used to???

Plus, the room was so hot, I could not breath properly, and I almost passed out??

could someone please give me some advice on this, as i'm lost???
was it anything I done wrong, I do have experiance, and she never said, she wanted long forplay or anything, and also she said she never came, when it sure seamed like it??
right im prob gonna sound like a bitch.. but i dont mean to be, a few points ive noticed on your post..

you said you gave her a lot of foreplay and some massages, and then you said that lasted about 20 mins... that is no where near a lot..

the first message on msn was ok, she wasnt being a bitch she was just giving you advice, take your time...

in the second message there was a bit of misunderstanding you thought 2 hours of sex, where she meant 2 hours in total.. see i dont think she was being a bitch, prob just a bit annoyed..

and just cos youve sleep with 6 people doesnt mean you have more experirence than her... it just means youve sleep with 6 people..

and you said you do no foreplay but she seems to be fussy, sorry dude she isnt fussy, shes normal, she wants more foreplay most women do, cos they need it..

and about this ex business, did she say that.. if she thought that, why would she be interested in you and want to sleep with you..

and i can understand your used to you ex, hence you have to spend more time with the new person.. and if you only gave your ex that amount of foreplay im surprised she never said anything..

to be truthful, i think you have the problem as you think that 20 mins is ok for foreplay.. but that comes with expeirence... next time.. spend more time with the girl, when your doing stuff right, you will be able to tell by the way shes reacting.. and dont think about your needs, concentrate on hers first


Thank you love god and sex guru vile vi, i for one shall be taking note of her advice and following her rules in the bedroom

 

11.04.2007, 13:34 quote

Anonymous

vile vi... shut it stinker loo

 

11.04.2007, 13:36 quote

Anonymous

twistedvoilet wrote:
vile vi... shut it stinker loo


I stink lovely, smell my bum Crying or Very sad

 

11.04.2007, 13:49 quote

Anonymous

TinkerLou wrote:
twistedvoilet wrote:
vile vi... shut it stinker loo


I stink lovely, smell my bum Crying or Very sad
i can smell it from here

 

11.04.2007, 13:59 quote

Anonymous

ok ive been searchin around other sites to see what other people thought.

this woman talks about her bf/ husband

For my guy, like five minutes. Seriously, he was so nervous that when he did get it up he lasted 3-5 minutes. Just relax, be cool, and don't worry about how long you'll last. If she loves you and cares for you enough to be with you like this, she'll understand that for two young people, it takes a few tries to get the hang of sex. And if it's any consolation, you'll probably last 45 minutes in a matter of weeks. Smile Happened for us, so keep trying! ALWAYS HAVE SAFER SEX! -Carrie


A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2006):


Um...well after researching the snwer to this question. The majority of the answers to this question is said to be 15-30 minutes. "break time lasts about 15 mins so lets just say that 15 minutes is ENOUGH! And you go back to work happy!" So its said 15 is fun, direct and just better! There is the answer to your question.



a man says
I know, being male myself, that with the first time, it can be very easy to get carried away and over excited, we have all been there. However one thing you have to realise is that sex shouldn't be timed, its not a competition with anyone. All you need to do is relax, make sure you enjoy it. Take it slower if you feel uncomfortable, or try pulling out and switching to foreplay to make it last longer. Ultimately just keep in mind that with experience you will become so much better at it.


and this girl says
it all depends on the guy, some last longer then others, don't worry if you only lasted five mintues then it's ok it's your first time, you'll get uset to it after awhile and you won't cumm as quickly. But it's normal for a first time to last only a short time, all the excitement can play a hugh factor. Just pace yourself and you'll be alright.

god i need to get a life

 

11.04.2007, 20:49 quote

ale82
Joined: 10 Apr 2007 Posts: 1
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dude tell the whole story! 'cause you are only telling your side! seriously why do you feel the need to tell this in public?, that is so slow and lame... that speaks volumes of you.. and quoting what she told you in private... grow up man!!

I know she is totally right in what she said and you know that deep inside, but still feel the need to save some dignity, so you came here to whine about it, right?! so lame....!

 

11.04.2007, 20:50 quote

tajera
Joined: 10 Apr 2007 Posts: 1 Location: United Kingdom, England, London
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Hi, this is the girl he is talking about.

First of all James, you have no right of talking about me in a forum, and even you have no right to speak about what happened, you have showed me how stupid you are, you are such a kid who doesn't know how to fuck a lady.

Well, guys, let me tell you EXACTLY what happened:

Foreplay: NONE
Massage: 3 minutes
Fucking: 5 minutes
The guy came and I didnt have any orgasm, I didnt have any pleasure and the only explanation I had from you is that the room was hot???!!!!!

As ALL THE GIRLS IN THIS WORLD WE LIKE FOREPLAY, YOU HAVE TO WARM UP A GIRL WITH A LOT OF FOREPLAY, AND THEN FUCK HER AS MANY TIMES AS YOU WANT, BUT FIRST YOU HAVE TO WET HER UP.

Secondly, we went to the cinema, Burguer King... I PAID EVERYTHING, YOU DONT EVEN HAVE ANY MONEY TO PAY YOU THE TRANSPORT, SO I DONT WANT TO BE YOUR BABYSITTER OR YOUR BANK TO PAY YOU EVERYTHING.

Now let me remind you some of the posts you consider your "support":

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Sorry but 10 minutes as a first attempt .....I would be a bit diappointed too. Sorry but just my opinion. Don't know if i would then try and give the person concerned tips though....find that a bit strange.

You have to remember that not all women are the same and what works for some wont work for others. Getting to know what the individual likes takes work and I dont think this girl has not given you a fair chance to show here what you are really about. One thing though is that a lot of women won't actually say what they want as they are not confident in doing so...its down to you to read the signs im afraid. Comes with experience and age I think. I'm a lot more conifdent now than I was when I was your age and im not afraid to say what I want


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10 mins would be rather disapointing....pump pump squirt is not cool !Where you abit over excited?......i'm sure some of the guys can give you some tips for a lasting performance.....(thinking about maggie thatcher? or maybe bashing one out before the date might have helped alittle!)


Cazza's right tho it takes time to get to know what people like and it doesn't sound like shes given you a fair chance......Justbecause you fancy someone doesn't mean you automatically know what buttons to press!!


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10 mins from start to finish...


enuff sed....


improve ya stayin power....

1....get pissed
2....throw one off the wrist about 3 hrs before
3....all else fails.....think of ya mum & dad goin at it.



if those dont work


u av a problem


I just registered to write in this post, so goodbye to everyone and specially you JAMES GOODBYE AND LEAVE ME ALONE

 

11.04.2007, 21:08 quote

Anonymous

locking this due to complaint recived.

 
 
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