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11.04.2007, 12:56 quote

JohnnyC
JohnnyC Joined: 20 Nov 2003 Posts: 150 Location: United Kingdom, England, East Yorkshire
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LMAO.

I agree with you too Tinks!!!

End of the day even if she didnt get what she wanted she never let him know what she wanted so there is no need at all to be nasty about it!!!

I'll take you up on that Tea if that ok? LoL

 

11.04.2007, 12:58 quote

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JohnnyC wrote:
LMAO.

I agree with you too Tinks!!!

End of the day even if she didnt get what she wanted she never let him know what she wanted so there is no need at all to be nasty about it!!!

I'll take you up on that Tea if that ok? LoL


just putting the cosey on the pot.......ooooh it will be like a mad hatters tea party.....Vi, where are you, your the maddest!! Laughing

 

11.04.2007, 13:00 quote

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wyche85 wrote:
Thanks everyone for your support

well the forplay went on for about 20 mins at least, I even gave her a full body massage,
then the love was about 10 mins...


I'm not sure what she thinks was so unpalatable that it didn't deserve a second try. Sure you could have spent a lot longer on foreplay (and possibly on the intercourse part), especially for a first time, but it's not like you just went at it as soon as you got her alone either. I agree with others that quickies also have their place, though in my experience it's rarely on the first time.

To be perfectly frank, if her response is to ditch you rather than suggest improvement (e.g. "next time I wish you'd take more time working me up by ..."), she's probably not mature enough to teach you anything sexually anyway. Find a woman who will tell you what she wants for two hours then enjoy the opportunity to give it to her Smile

 

11.04.2007, 13:00 quote

JohnnyC
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I'll set off on my way now then.
OK with you if I just leave the works suit on or would you prefer me to change into my little satin school girls uniform? LMAO!!!

 

11.04.2007, 13:02 quote

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JohnnyC wrote:
I'll set off on my way now then.
OK with you if I just leave the works suit on or would you prefer me to change into my little satin school girls uniform? LMAO!!!



Confused

 

11.04.2007, 13:04 quote

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TinkerLou wrote:
JohnnyC wrote:
LMAO.

I agree with you too Tinks!!!

End of the day even if she didnt get what she wanted she never let him know what she wanted so there is no need at all to be nasty about it!!!

I'll take you up on that Tea if that ok? LoL


just putting the cosey on the pot.......ooooh it will be like a mad hatters tea party.....Vi, where are you, your the maddest!! Laughing
how dare you... now leave me alone while i chase this white rabbit

 

11.04.2007, 13:04 quote

JohnnyC
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TinkerLou wrote:
JohnnyC wrote:
I'll set off on my way now then.
OK with you if I just leave the works suit on or would you prefer me to change into my little satin school girls uniform? LMAO!!!



Confused


Lost you then huh - Doesnt matter!!! LoL
Was just having a laugh because of a seperate message you sent to me in another forum. You obviously dont remember though. LoL

 

11.04.2007, 13:07 quote

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JohnnyC wrote:
TinkerLou wrote:
JohnnyC wrote:
I'll set off on my way now then.
OK with you if I just leave the works suit on or would you prefer me to change into my little satin school girls uniform? LMAO!!!



Confused


Lost you then huh - Doesnt matter!!! LoL
Was just having a laugh because of a seperate message you sent to me in another forum. You obviously dont remember though. LoL


I am not that silly, i know what you was saying! thats was my pondering worried face Very Happy

 

11.04.2007, 13:09 quote

JohnnyC
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Ahhhhhhh right!!! Doh!!! Sorry beautiful!!! LoL

Why worried?

 

11.04.2007, 13:13 quote

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JohnnyC wrote:
Ahhhhhhh right!!! Doh!!! Sorry beautiful!!! LoL

Why worried?


oh i was worried about if i had enough teabags for the party

 

11.04.2007, 13:14 quote

JohnnyC
JohnnyC Joined: 20 Nov 2003 Posts: 150 Location: United Kingdom, England, East Yorkshire
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LoL - Yeah, yeah. I'm sure.

LMAO

I'll stop at the shops on my way and pic some up if you want? LoL

 

11.04.2007, 13:21 quote

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doctorfaust wrote:

To be perfectly frank, if her response is to ditch you rather than suggest improvement (e.g. "next time I wish you'd take more time working me up by ..."), she's probably not mature enough to teach you anything sexually anyway. Find a woman who will tell you what she wants for two hours then enjoy the opportunity to give it to her Smile


My thoughts exactly. To ditch you at the first problem and not try to improve things at all suggests that she is immature, and still hung up on her ex.

 

11.04.2007, 13:23 quote

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wyche85 wrote:
Hi gang Very Happy

I was dating a girl, she really liked me, we went cinema and stuff,
then she was still sending me messages and we got along well, then she invited me to her place, said "I bet your a good kisser" and was leading me on.....

She lives in the hotel she works at, in central london, her room is in the basement area by the boilers, so it was 30*C or more!

We then started to make out on the bed, and not long,
(I don't want to get into all the gory details as this is not a porn site)
We had alot of forplay and I gave her some massages, then we did it!
it lasted for 10 mins or so....

Then afterwords, we had pizza, watched a film, I stayed over the night then went next morning....

All was good.. until I spoke to her on msn...
I said "did you miss me" she said "no"

Then this was one of her messages
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Quote:
I was thinking about something that last longer, like 2 hours as im used to, i like the preliminars, you know, the kisses, carresses, lickings, but not going straight away to come inside me, wet me fastly because it never works and this is an advice im giving you for the next time you have your chance: dont go too fast.


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Just with your question you have showed me you dont have any experience in love, I didnt mean 2 hours fucking inside me, i mean 2 hours in total.

Look, find yourself a love book, read it and then you will understand when i tell you about 2 hours.


I do have experiance in love, when she slept with 4 people in total, I have about 6 people in total, over a period from 18years old till now, i'm 21..

I do know forplay, and it seams that she was just really fussy, and did not want to see me, and took me off her myspace, becasue I did not do exactly like her EX!!!!

when I have been in a 2 year relationship, and was used to what my ex was used to???

Plus, the room was so hot, I could not breath properly, and I almost passed out??

could someone please give me some advice on this, as i'm lost???
was it anything I done wrong, I do have experiance, and she never said, she wanted long forplay or anything, and also she said she never came, when it sure seamed like it??
right im prob gonna sound like a bitch.. but i dont mean to be, a few points ive noticed on your post..

you said you gave her a lot of foreplay and some massages, and then you said that lasted about 20 mins... that is no where near a lot..

the first message on msn was ok, she wasnt being a bitch she was just giving you advice, take your time...

in the second message there was a bit of misunderstanding you thought 2 hours of love, where she meant 2 hours in total.. see i dont think she was being a bitch, prob just a bit annoyed..

and just cos youve sleep with 6 people doesnt mean you have more experirence than her... it just means youve sleep with 6 people..

and you said you do no foreplay but she seems to be fussy, sorry dude she isnt fussy, shes normal, she wants more foreplay most women do, cos they need it..

and about this ex business, did she say that.. if she thought that, why would she be interested in you and want to sleep with you..

and i can understand your used to you ex, hence you have to spend more time with the new person.. and if you only gave your ex that amount of foreplay im surprised she never said anything..

to be truthful, i think you have the problem as you think that 20 mins is ok for foreplay.. but that comes with expeirence... next time.. spend more time with the girl, when your doing stuff right, you will be able to tell by the way shes reacting.. and dont think about your needs, concentrate on hers first

 

11.04.2007, 13:32 quote

JohnnyC
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I have to agree wiht the "Dont concentrate on your needs - make sure she's enjoying herself first" comment. That's where a lot of guys fall down.

Personally, the more I can turn a girl on during foreplay the more I get turned on myself anyway. Take your time, tease and please and you'll know when your doing the right things and the more time you spend doing that the more your going to learn what she likes.

 

11.04.2007, 13:33 quote

pendlelad
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spoken like a true woman twisted...but of course your right.....always look after the female of the species..........

plenty of four play with the odd break in between for whatever u want....thus keepin her waitin and wanting more.....

and when the time is right.......u will tell......or maybe not in sum cases...

all comes down to experience.........


but hey weve all been their at some point...

and yes if she is too self servent then get shut....
theirs no need to compare to anybody.....

all i can say is ............enjoy.....its a wonderful thing called lurv






gawd where did that come from......

ahh well live and learn


 
 
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