Well I dont think you have done anything wrong. Personally I like about an hours foreplay but that depends entirely on the person im with and what we both want at the time. Like a lot of others have said I think she's been a bit of a cow and was wanting her ex back more than anything. If I was you I'd leave her to it mate.

I'd cut her loose, criticize your technique... fine, its all learing but comparing you to her ex and saying if you get another chance, to do it right...!?! feck that for a game of soldiers. Ultimatiums in sex do nothing but add pressure.

This woman is going to be nothing but a constant selfish whining headache, drop drop drop drop drop and drop now.

As for the foreplay..... the first time you're with someone its always nice to tease... you know its going to happen so excite and tease her until its unbearable for both of you to wait anymore.

Fair enough point, i personally find though my levels of excitment when im with someone the first time means i tend to ejaculate quicker than normal so i force myself to be slow and teasing the first time. Thats why i emphasise it more to myself when im with someone the first time.

Also the first time your discovering her body bit by bit i find is always the best for me because you are truly just discovering it, i like slowly removing her clothes, and hinting with my hands and fingers what part i want to discover next. Its a unique feeling of excitment i only get the first time im with someone, and i love milking it and taking ages with it.

After you get to know each other and are more comfortable and playfull with each other taking too long can sometimes be frustrating if all thats wanted is a quicky or a little bit of naughtyness. It can depend on whats wanted.

Couldnt agree more with a lot of what you said. Just dont think that just because a guy gets with a lady that he should then stop making the effort.

Personally, if I am with someone a long time I never ever loose the urge to play, explore and tease them. I think that every single time your intimate with somebody, regardless of how long you have been with them, is another oppertunity to play and explore them and maybe find out something you never knew.

Find something extra that they really like having done to them that you have never tried or found before. Thats what keeps the excitement and intensity going in a relationship. You may even find something that they themselves didn't even know they'd like but have just never tried it or had it done to them before.

Your quite right, you can sometimes get a little TOO familiar with each other when in a long term relationship. But that doesnt mean us guys have to stop making the effort! Thats when everything gets very routine and can be quite mundane for the lady. Thats not to say that quickeis arent good though!!! Sometimes quickies can be exactly what a lady wants and can produce a much more intense orgasm that hours of foreplay so I'm all for them.

Just think a lot of guys fall down by not keeping the effort up with their ladies and start to take things for granted.

so you have 20 mins of foreplay, which included a full body massage... sorry dude but thats shocking..
but the sounds of it, you got her relaxed, but didnt do anything to turn her on.. it takes more that a few mins to turn a woman on...

unless its a quickie... but it wasnt..

and if you with someone for the first time, you make more of a effort, spend time exploring her body seeing what she likes and what not

LoL - Now I'm lost!!! LoL

Thought I had a pretty good train of thought and was giving some decent advise there but I've lost the plot totally now!!! LoL

No Tinks......you were still right....the girl was bitchy either way

Not very nice is it....Next time do it right





Wanna get yourself a nice girl next time Wyche......someone with a bit more patience who cares about your feelings!


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