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30.06.2007, 19:30 quote
Along my road in the search for enlightenment I came across a profound dilema. It torments me quite a lot but I seem not to find the answer to it. So I tender it to the gentle ladies of this forum.
Why do woman feel the need or see it necessary to fake it?
Isn't it unproductive letting a man think he managed to, rather then let him work hard for it?
And if he doesn't bother to please you, why would you bother to let him think he is good at it?
more questions to follow 
01.07.2007, 13:41 quote
| simplyme79 wrote: |
| Along my road in the search for enlightenment I came across a profound dilema. It torments me quite a lot but I seem not to find the answer to it. So I tender it to the gentle ladies of this forum.
Why do woman feel the need or see it necessary to fake it? Isn't it unproductive letting a man think he managed to, rather then let him work hard for it? And if he doesn't bother to please you, why would you bother to let him think he is good at it? more questions to follow |
I see alot of people have viewed your post, but no one brave enough to respond lol I agree with everything you have said, very unproductive, if not only to yourself ladies to fake orgasms, whats the point of getting to a certain point and then think, 'oh fuck it', i'll just pretend.
Like the gentlemen says above. make them work harder, point them in the right direction if necessary, in my own experience most men dont mind to be told that they are in slighty the wrong area, if you know what i mean. I am not saying i have never faked an orgasm, but not since i was about 25, which is when i realised that men should also play a part in sex and not just lie there waiting lol Ann-Marie xxx
01.07.2007, 13:55 quote
| simplyme79 wrote: |
|
Why do woman feel the need or see it necessary to fake it? Isn't it unproductive letting a man think he managed to, rather then let him work hard for it? And if he doesn't bother to please you, why would you bother to let him think he is good at it? |
Excellent points!!
In fact I bring these up at the beginning of any new relationship. I make it quite clear that I would rather be told what I could do to make things better than for someone to fake. I know this will sound mean, but I actually left someone because she faked her orgasms sometimes (yeh, I know, I'm a bastard, what can I say)
01.07.2007, 14:36 quote
| annmarie5988 wrote: |
| in my own experience most men dont mind to be told that they are in slighty the wrong area, if you know what i mean. |
I'd be insulted if I was with a woman who'd rather fake an orgasm than talk to me. I want them to enjoy it as much as possible, too. Likewise I'm happy to do the same, if there's things they could do better.
01.07.2007, 14:52 quote
Finally lol... i thought this topic would never lift off, well i think I would leave a someone if realise she was faking - never happened but maybe i dated good actresses, and i like to add a ground at begining of a relationship: hey lets be honest i think is almost as bad as cheating, guess could be something with self esteem, but if you trust someone enough to let him go in between your legs to put it blantly how cannot you trust him enough to tell him the truth. In a one night stand scenario s a different thing but that's another topic....
11.07.2007, 15:16 quote
I've forgotten what sex is now.......heehee
But let me try to remember
(years ago...first serious b/f)
Hmmmmm have I faked it?.....Yes I have..More than once I would think.....Did he notice?...Not as far as I could tell....
Why did I fake it.....Hmmmm well i guess really it was just laziness....sometimes it just easier and I'd had enough.....wanted him to finish.....few moans in the right place and pop goes the weasel....better than asking him to hurry up tho right?? Less of a dented ego ....
But i agree...you should be able to talk about these things in a relationship
I wouldn't say it was as bad as cheating tho!
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11.07.2007, 15:35 quote
I have never faked (and never will fake) an orgasm.
I'd just rather tell them that it ain't working for me.....and then take great pleasure in telling them what WOULD work.
11.07.2007, 15:52 quote
| PasleptSiekare wrote: |
| I'd just rather tell them that it ain't working for me.....and then take great pleasure in telling them what WOULD work. |
I think it would be better like that, if more women just said "This isn't working for me", and worked with the guy to find out what does work. As it is most seem to fake it and then slag the bloke off to their friends. If its going to work you've got to try everything.
11.07.2007, 16:08 quote
| Baggiebhoy wrote: | ||
I think it would be better like that, if more women just said "This isn't working for me", and worked with the guy to find out what does work. As it is most seem to fake it and then slag the bloke off to their friends. If its going to work you've got to try everything. |
I'd be more impressed with a guy if he actually listened and was willing to learn.......
I don't think I could ever slag a guy off like that to my friends - mostly because my mates ARE guys - but also because I like to keep things like that private!
11.07.2007, 16:13 quote
| PasleptSiekare wrote: | ||||
I'd be more impressed with a guy if he actually listened and was willing to learn....... I don't think I could ever slag a guy off like that to my friends - mostly because my mates ARE guys - but also because I like to keep things like that private! |
I tend to think that you have to be willing to listen and learn. Not every woman is the same, and you can't just go through a certain routine and make her eyes roll back into her skull every single time.
Also, thats why I said most, not all. While most of the women on FB are not that immature and silly, a lot of the women I know can be at times. I know this is only a small amout of people in the grand scheme of things, but most of us can only comment on what we see around us.
22.07.2007, 12:34 quote
A woman should never have to fake an orgasm as there are plenty of other ways to “light her fire” before you dip your wick 
. If it’s that difficult to achieve a guaranteed orgasm can always be bought from a sex shop, …I believe they come in all shapes, sizes and colours now. 
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