Along my road in the search for enlightenment I came across a profound dilema. It torments me quite a lot but I seem not to find the answer to it. So I tender it to the gentle ladies of this forum.

Why do woman feel the need or see it necessary to fake it?

Isn't it unproductive letting a man think he managed to, rather then let him work hard for it?

And if he doesn't bother to please you, why would you bother to let him think he is good at it?

more questions to follow

Faking is a waste of everyones time
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....and a waste of energy

Finally lol... i thought this topic would never lift off, well i think I would leave a someone if realise she was faking - never happened but maybe i dated good actresses, and i like to add a ground at begining of a relationship: hey lets be honest i think is almost as bad as cheating, guess could be something with self esteem, but if you trust someone enough to let him go in between your legs to put it blantly how cannot you trust him enough to tell him the truth. In a one night stand scenario s a different thing but that's another topic....

did you know that men can also fake an orgasm....

I've forgotten what sex is now.......heehee




But let me try to remember

(years ago...first serious b/f)
Hmmmmm have I faked it?.....Yes I have..More than once I would think.....Did he notice?...Not as far as I could tell....


Why did I fake it.....Hmmmm well i guess really it was just laziness....sometimes it just easier and I'd had enough.....wanted him to finish.....few moans in the right place and pop goes the weasel....better than asking him to hurry up tho right?? Less of a dented ego ....

But i agree...you should be able to talk about these things in a relationship

I wouldn't say it was as bad as cheating tho!
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I have never faked (and never will fake) an orgasm.

I'd just rather tell them that it ain't working for me.....and then take great pleasure in telling them what WOULD work.


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Laura
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Confidence - Wear it like make up.

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A woman should never have to fake an orgasm as there are plenty of other ways to “light her fire” before you dip your wick . If it’s that difficult to achieve a guaranteed orgasm can always be bought from a sex shop, …I believe they come in all shapes, sizes and colours now.