What is the difference to you ? Have my own opinion on this but am interested in what others have to say.

Which do you prefer?

Here I go again again, this has already been covered, but I can't find a link.

LAURA, help me

fcuking is meaningless sex, making love is sex with someone you love.

Sex is never meanlingless.

I think its down to communication. Sometimes people express themselves through physicality.

What do I mean by that ?

Well, Sometimes when you can't find the words a hug or a squeeze of the hand can speak volumes. That isn't always to do with sex or sexual desire its just a common form of human contact, communication if you like.

Fucking is lustful , making love is a higher, deeper form of communication, a better understanding between two people, an expression of emotional understanding, much more of a bond between two people than just fucking.

Fucking can be baseless it can be crude it can be an expression, its based on a desire as well though. It can be objectifying, its very, very subjective. It is down to the situation and the people involved.

I don't think its as black and white as we like to think it is there are lots of grey areas.

If people use sex as their only means of communication then there is something wrong with the way that they communicate.

[quote="SimonLeBrit"]Sex is never meanlingless.

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of course sex can be meaningless, in men more so than women.

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I understand what was meant.

If both people feel an emotional detachment from the situation and it is just a pure act then I would accept that. It isn't always the case though that two people feel _exactly_ the same about that. It's how hurt comes about.

I guess it's all down to communicating which brings it back to my original point. Ive known some people just use sex as a form of communication because they are inept at expressing themselves in other ways and that is a problem.

why do people assume that guys have no emotional attatchment to sex?