so thats why your always hanging round the fruit and veg section in tesco's then Tantric....and there was me thinking you were a healthy eater.

re the more bacteria round the mouth than anus- different types around the mouth- not all dangerous- if going to enter the body- will do via the stomach- and as high acid ph there- not much survives- so less chance to catch anything- unless you have open sores around/in your mouth- in which case- shouldn't really be kissing/tonguing etc- as for your anus- as was said- easily and regulary torn inside upon penetration- so any bacteria can gain direct access to your blood stream- more chance of spread! specific bacteria which your body needs live in ur rectum/intestine- dangerous if tranferred to your mouth - or even more so- the vagina- can cause infection and if left unnoticed/untreated- infertility- so pre anal- use a douche or even better- a strong condom! never enter the vagina after the anus without a wash/cleanse
(used to do sexual health classes for teens- so not all from personal experience!)

I say this and I am being truthful, i love anal, i have a fantastic vibrating plug and me and whoever i am with uses before it seems to turn me on more and sometimes more interesting than non anal sex

I bought a vibrating butt plug for my ex. She said 'whats that for' as I opened the box. 'for you to put where the sun dont shine darling' I replied. So she hid it in the attic never to be seen again.

some girls ive met really enjoy it but then there are some that are like dont be puttin anything in there! but to each there own i guess!

Well, it's a BIG ONE (pardon the pun) in the PORN world. I have never done it. I like the IDEA of it: forbidden, naughty, illicit etc and the dangerous thrill of it from a taboo perspective. But I think it must be a bit gross to see any kind of s**t that might come out. Food for thought, eh?

DJ

In my experience females have had the most intence orgasm with anal but the mood and settings were always right.

Me I enjoy it (giving I must add) and I have had anal sex with every woman I have dated past 2 months and they have all agreed it was the most intence orgasm in their experience.

A few thing need to happen:

a) They need to be very comfortable with you
b) Break them in very!!!! slowly (external rubbing, fingers first etc) for weeks
c) You need to really turn them on and by that I mean get them so that they would walk on breaking glass in order for you to finish them off
d) Never be be pushy or dominant during the activity

Apart from that it MUST be fun for both, do not plan a time such and follow a script just go with flow

forgot to add part e) If they come and you have not and they are not the multiple orgasm type pull out at the height of the orgasm and do not carry on