SO WHY IS IT THAT MOST OF THE MEN OUT THERE GO TO CHEW THE FOO AND LOOK UP AT YOU LIKE THEY ARE DOING YOU SOME KIND OF FAVOUR WEN WE HAV TO SUCK THEIR COCK AND SWALLOW, AS ALWAYS, AND GET JAW ACHE???????????? ITS NOT A FAVOUR THEY SHOULD LOVE IT

I really do not know we are all sorry lol hey nice pic btw ! xx

I tend to like it myself!

What kind of men do you meet? It's delicious......yummmmmmyyyyy

Hahaha slinky I read ya! TBH I aint fussed about it myself but all men assume you love it!

guys like to look after themselves. Doing you is a favour. oh and by the way.. when they are tipping the velvet you are supposed to be oohhhhing and aaahhhing even though they havent a clue.

how do u know

are you sure they are not looking up for a diffrent reason. i love to look up and i lick clit to watch her enjoy the hour of fun

and can I just add while we're at the topic ( if I'm allowed to do this by the strict moderators!).
It is almost always very nice to be licked, but don't overdo it. Have tried havin those gouys licking for ages and looking up at you like a really proud puppy - not a turn on!
Guys... If you're not really fantastic at it - and your are not - not all of you anyway. Listen to your lady - is she horny as hell or is she a bit still - if she's too still, then it's probably a good clue to either do it another way, or just do something else.
Have tried a couple of times that guys do it for too long, and he can be very good at it, but at some point... well for me anyways, it get´s a bit boring(s boring as it can be!).
So listen to your lovely ladies..

ANd to my fellow sisters... guide them if they don't know what they're doing or more relevant - what you like. Wouldn't you want him to giude you if it was the othehr way around?

Phew - apparently a lot to say on the topic

And may I just ask you guys how you best like you bj? ( yes, know it's individually, but come with more tricks:)

its more so about how the girl feels. guys can tell if she does not want to do it. if she is into it and just loves the taste of cock it almost does not matter how they do it. if she just feels obligated theres no enthusiasm and it can really suck(not in a good way)

Couple of possible answers to the original question.

1) Many guys love it when the girl looks up, so presume the girls like it when he does the same. It's a common mistake in younger/less experienced/plain ignorant people to presume that what they like, their partner will like too.

2) What Frammerjay said. Maybe the just enjoy seeing you enjoying yourself. (Presuming that's actually the case - the several annoyed women in this thread remind us usefully that many of us men are pretty useless in bed).

ha ha i must be wierd. i personally dont like it. but i know what you mean about them feeling like its a chore.
but at the same time i guess the reason i dont like ot os because i have not had a good time doing it.

well i never had to chew or suck anything or anyone.pleasure and knowing your needs and limits is the awnser
it works both ways and i personally dont expect a good licking ... just because i adore to suck cock.

Dunno, maybe we are just looking for some confirmation that we are having the desired effect...

I have to take my cues from the woman because (in the begining) I am not intimately familiar with what is wanted...

Why is there always one special spot but it keeps moving? Is that just to keep us on our toes?

Similar subject (maybe should be in its own thread), circumsision does that affect other mens ability to orgasm from oral sex?