good point ...

well i love girls who like to have casual love coz at the end of the night they are no strings and no one gets hurt have plenty of sexual fun then say your goodbyes

ahh casual love...
me and my old friend have recently been reunited after a tiff!

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I agree with Shaolin , the slut, whore branding comes with having multiple sexual partners.

Speaking for myself I wouldn’t want to be with a woman who slept around like that as I value my health, some men would and that's their choice. There is also the social stigma attached to it as well, ..if her activity was known how many men would really want to be seen out in public with someone like that?

Don't shoot the messenger here, ..just saying how it is!

I think leglover missed the point we aren’t talking about being with someone who sleeps around, I think the topic is about why are ladies who like a little rumpy-pumpy whilst they are single branded as whores/sluts yadda yadda yadda...

I don think they are really, I think its more in ones own head, we are all driven mentally about stereotypical upbringings where we are told over and over again you must not do this or that, you must change your underwear everyday or what would the doctors think if you had an accident, you shouldn’t have love at all especially with more that one person... The list goes on...

So people are unkind and rude to others, often where it is not justified. Just be a strong confident woman say what you like go for it and really life’s a lot easier then. If you’re getting what you want so be it, more power to you. You are being honest with yourself and to me that’s what its all about.

We all have itches that need scratching everyone in a while so go scratch.
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Actually I don’t think I have missed the point at all, perhaps you just see if differently than I do. I was simply answering the question from a mans point of view. Rumpy pumpy/casual love, .. call it what you want if you’re not sleeping with multiple partners then there isn’t anything casual about it and therefore no stigma attached to it. And if you are then of course mud is going to stick

I’m not saying its fair, as it’s been said men can do it and they’re studs, women do it and they are sluts.
I don’t agree with it but it’s just the way people see it right now.

So much for the enlightened 21st century...

As long as its casual on both sides!

Its true. Why can't a woman have a high love drive without being called a slut?

But its also true most of those comments come from other girls. Perhaps a tad jealous sometimes...?

And yes - men are a bit more animal and less emotional than girls but thats the way we are isn't it.