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16.12.2008, 00:45 quote

welshcookie90

Hi to everyone!
I'd just like to discuss a casual relationship, or more precisely (and crudely) a 'fuck buddy'.
At the moment I am looking for something along these lines (due to recent events) with anyone Razz (as long as they are decent people) and I can't seem to find anyone (must just be me Razz)
I was just wondering what women thought about this? Is it wrong in all cases? Or if not done in a sleazy way (ie. little talk, no respect) then is it ok?
I personally don't see anything wrong with it but I know a lot of women do. I suppose I am just hoping for some woman to give me the hope that what I am looking for is out there somewhere in someone Razz
Thanks!

 

17.12.2008, 00:12 quote

welshcookie90

Nobody have any comments?

 

17.12.2008, 00:30 quote

vtwinster

Personally mate, i dont think a fuckbuddy/sexbuddy is what you really want...

And i mean no offence to you, if some bird is looking for the same, she is going to want someone with a bit more experience...

 

17.12.2008, 00:37 quote

choochi0
choochi0 Joined: 13 May 2008 Posts: 5482 Location: United Kingdom, England, Sussex
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VT you are so pessimistic.

I think fuck buddies are fine, but I take the term literally. They should be buddies too. Someone you get along with and can connect with as friends and not just solely for sex.

I believe that many women a cerebral and like to be stimulated mentally as well as as sexually.

 

17.12.2008, 00:50 quote

vtwinster

choochi0 wrote:


I think fuck buddies are fine, but I take the term literally. They should be buddies too. Someone you get along with and can connect with as friends and not just solely for sex.

Ahh.
But that would mean an online or real world friendship, not posting a thread waiting for a reply Laughing

But i also believe that throwing sex into an already good friendship makes you think differently about the person...or is that just me Confused

My last "relationship" ended purely because of this, we were good mates, very good mates even, threw sex into the subject wanted more out of it, started seeing one another, turns out to be we should of just stayed mates Crying or Very sad

Weird aint it, but everyone's different i suppose...

 

17.12.2008, 07:15 quote

susiexxx

Nowt wrong with 'fuck buddies'..as long as there is mutual respect and neither party has any other expectations from the sexual encounters..then IMO they can work fine..only starts to get messy when the emotional side of things get messed with...

 

29.12.2008, 13:33 quote

johnbird
johnbird Joined: 10 Sep 2006 Posts: 12 Location: United Kingdom, England, West Midlands
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choochi0 wrote:
VT you are so pessimistic.

I think fuck buddies are fine, but I take the term literally. They should be buddies too. Someone you get along with and can connect with as friends and not just solely for sex.

I believe that many women a cerebral and like to be stimulated mentally as well as as sexually.

Here Here!!!

 

29.12.2008, 14:33 quote

mintalicious

Good luck, I hope you find someone who suits!

My FB when I'm at uni is such good fun, and we know that it's not going any further then bedroom gymnastics and the occasional text!

 

29.12.2008, 16:12 quote

jeggae
jeggae Joined: 06 Dec 2008 Posts: 1316 Location: United Kingdom, England, Bedfordshire
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Dont really have to be old friends, just someone for sex. Its good as long as you keep it that way and one doesn't want more then the other. Otherwise could be problems.

 

29.12.2008, 19:10 quote

choochi0
choochi0 Joined: 13 May 2008 Posts: 5482 Location: United Kingdom, England, Sussex
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susiexxx wrote:
Nowt wrong with 'fuck buddies'..as long as there is mutual respect and neither party has any other expectations from the sexual encounters..then IMO they can work fine..only starts to get messy when the emotional side of things get messed with...


Yep, best to lay down the rules as soon as possible - as Frank Zappa said "broken hearts are for arseholes"

 
 
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