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15.06.2006, 18:00 quote

Anonymous

Can A guy handle a opionated confident women?

In my experienced sexualy yes major turn on a woman whos confident in her body an enjoying her self,

Mind wise no guys you just dont want a woman who tells you what she wants. why she dosnt like something an where she wants to go.

why shes messing with your head?

 

15.06.2006, 18:06 quote

Anonymous

A girl who is confident with her looks is particularly appealing. Especially if she's got some fiiiiine curves to be confident with.

The two are a deadly combination Wink

 

15.06.2006, 18:08 quote

Anonymous

I disagree, but there are many men out there

Communication is key, maybe that breaks down rather than any opinions.
Who know's I think it is relative to the people involved.

 

15.06.2006, 18:14 quote

Anonymous

i love confidence its something very sexy sometimes a guy sorry to say but can be ugly but have such confidence is so sexy an appealing

 

15.06.2006, 19:48 quote

Anonymous

What is it about confidence that is such a turn on? Why?

 

15.06.2006, 19:52 quote

Anonymous

Because you can and nothing can stand in your way...

 

15.06.2006, 19:55 quote

Anonymous

i found confidence is sexy what is the opp unsexy. knowing what u want how u want it how ur gona get it is confident. we all know pos body language an all that counts. there is something aboth confidence that has sex apeal.

 

15.06.2006, 22:44 quote

Anonymous

I think that the main problem is the bloke not knowing what to say, we are conditioned from an early age (no matter what race/creed/religion) that men are the primary figure in the social ladder, and women come second.

however when a man is posed with a confident "go get em" woman, we do not know how to cope and then we run, as it is something that we do not know.

Personally i love women like this, as there is no room for misunderstanding, feelings and thoughts are expressed in such a way as things like this cannot be misconstrued. I dated a woman like this for a year, and it was good, but eventually fell apart as things just didn't work out for us, (distance etc) however it taught me a lot, and now i prefer women to be more outspoken than just sit there and keep thoughts to themselves, a lot of the time it is the reason that things get so complicated, and breakdowns/ups, happen.

Smile

 

15.06.2006, 22:59 quote

Anonymous

i have always found my confidence helps me to pull a girl. I love confident women, but the shy type are cool. so long as they come out there shell later. Very Happy

 

16.06.2006, 09:08 quote

Anonymous

Im really confident, trouble is it can come over as arrogrance in some peoples eyes. It is a fine balance.

As for handling a confident woman, the chance to handle any woman would be a fine thing...

 

17.06.2006, 13:12 quote

DirectRabbit
DirectRabbit Joined: 03 Jan 2006 Posts: 68 Location: United Kingdom, England, London
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I enjoy a confident woman... it's alluring when a woman is as confident sexually and generally as I am... the banter is stimulatiung, looking her in the eye and laughing with her, teasing each other and challenging... and the sex between is mutually very satisfying because there isn't the situation of one person leading the other, just a dance with synchronised steps...

 

21.06.2006, 08:16 quote

Anonymous

In my experience the many men are scared by a woman who is confident in her looks, her intellect and knows what she wants in life. I dislike pubs and clubs on the weekends its impossible to have a conversation with so much npoise blaring out, so I choose to go to more sophisticated places with my friends or sisters, the men there are usually too shy (or scared?) to appraoch us or me and start talking, why is that? I hardly get chatted up. Crying or Very sad

 

21.06.2006, 08:40 quote

Anonymous

I'm can be confident on some days(i have good days and bad days)

More guys chat me up when i'm on a 'good day'..

 

22.06.2006, 09:26 quote

magnoknads
magnoknads Joined: 04 Aug 2005 Posts: 33 Location: United Kingdom, England, County Durham
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ClassyEssexGirl wrote:
the men there are usually too shy (or scared?) to appraoch us or me and start talking, why is that? I hardly get chatted up. Crying or Very sad


Guys don't like to be rejected when making the first move. Some women can be harsh at putting us in our place if we choose the wrong target - unfortunately there are no “I’m Single” badges so it can happen quite often.

You're obviously a very attractive woman, so many men will think you've already got a boyfriend or have high standards. They will avoid setting themselves up for a rejection scenario. Rejection hurts and humans shy away from pain.

As for confident women, I love them! I think if someone is shy, it makes first impressions and dates very uncomfortable because both of you are second-guessing the others thoughts and feelings. After you've been out a while, naturally everything opens up more but you still have to get over that bumpy ride.

With confidence, it does have the danger of a personality clash if the guy wants to lead (or have an easy life) but I'd rather be with a woman who let's me know what she wants rather than one that requires psychic powers. Plus taking turns to lead and be imaginative in bed is a definite plus.

Of course there are always extremes of the spectrum - too much confidence from women means the man can become overpowered in the relationship (or under the thumb) and I think that's what people associate as becoming a turn off. Ideally you want a fine balance, but life is rarely ideal. Wink

 

22.06.2006, 14:31 quote

Anonymous

ClassyEssexGirl wrote:
so I choose to go to more sophisticated places with my friends or sisters, the men there are usually too shy (or scared?) to appraoch us or me and start talking, why is that? I hardly get chatted up. Crying or Very sad


Mainly because of all the reasons you said in your first few lines. If you go to this place so you can chat, then so will most of the lads, however there is also the reason that people find it hard to start talking to someone who might reject them. As much as i hate to say it, there is also a stigma about chatting up women for blokes, we hate rejection, and trying to chat up someone that looks like you will only add to this. We build it up so much, that we are really not willing to be smashed back down to earth again.

Best advice chaps.... Swallow your pride and get chatting..... Very Happy

Now then....... do you still need chatting up?> Twisted Evil

 
 
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