My wife suffers from MS and love is not often, liar i can hear you
think, conman, asshole, w-----, but believe it or not it's true.
RRMS to be exact which means it comes and goes. I'm missing
love joined here but scared to meet anyone.
Just tell me to p off.

And youre in Algeria right?

well heavybeat you need to discuss this with your wife before you take any steps to cheat on her. if she gives her go ahead you have my well wishes. if not, then i'll tell you to piss off.

i agree with ringer to a certain extent. when a loved one is ill humans often turn to someone who can comfort them. we all need the physical act of love. even if it's only casual love. but i would still get the go ahead from my partner.

Your not an arsehole for thinking what all human beings think. Whilst i sympathise with your circumstances its best to be open with your wife about it. The fact that your asking ths question in the first place, shows anxiety, guilt, and concern on your your part on being with someone else. Anxiety, guilt and concern are not emotions arseholes feel, so relax. You'll feel better for discussing it with her.

erm...perhaps i'll get lashed for this...
but isn't his wife in enough pain/distress as it is? i'm not sure that telling her that he wants to have love with someone else is going to help this, so perhaps u'd want to think long and hard as to what effect saying this to her may have, and how much love matters to u. doesn't matter what u do in this situation there is no happy ending.

i have to agree with everyone here, i know friends of mine are in the same boat, his wife has ms, but i know he does not screw around on her, he is totally devoted, so u really have to do some soul searching on this one kiddo. good luck

Your a better man than me nig76, i can't see why you'd be lashed. I don't know how much the topic starter has discussed with his wife, or if they even bring the subject up, but it wouldn't be unreasonable to assume that the state of their love life may be an issue for his wife as well. A possible hurtful honest discussion might be better than unspoken assumptions or suspicions taking root over a long period of time.

why dont u just get some really good porn and lock urself in ur study for 10 minutes?!