At the age of 28 I've had a varied and good sex life..... just one problem not once in my life has a partner of mine been able to satisfy me with a blowjob or come to think of it with a hand job either.

Don't get me wrong i enjoy it, and it really turns me on... but it never does the business...

Is it me perhaps or who's pleasuring me.

Any advice greatly appreciated

just as there are women who cannot climax during penetration alone there are guys who cannot climax during oral alone.

it's not you, and i dont think at the age of 28 you have still to recieve your "perfect" blowjob. perhaps you just enjoy the penetration more.

you're not odd. i know other men who have never climaxed during oral sex...... although in saying that i never gave them oral sex!!! hahaha

Most handjobs just end up being bloody painful

unless

wonderous amounts of lubricant are involved. I never thought i'd say it, but it can be better than any other form of sex.

As for oral, it depends on who's doing it. Entirely. A lot of girls i've been with don't enjoy it, so obviously they're not going to give it their all.

dum de dum.... just having a nose.....

yes lubrication is brilliant.... i think i just really enjoy all things "sex" so my partner enjoys it too.... i get really into it.

youre not alone matt, i too need intercourse to blow off, i enjoy blowers, but ive never come from a bj

Same here mate

Doesn't stop me wanting to try...

Going to blow my own trumpet here, but I've had men propose to me after giving them a blow job.
I don't think I'm that good though!

Well there is that

I just imagine Kylie's doing a job on me when Im being blown and I dump my load in no time. To delay it I just think about Bernard Manning. I used to think about Bruce Forsyth to do this but I kinda fancy him so it didn't work.

I think Ive had to much sun.

I think if you don't enjoy it, you'll never be really good at it.

so true...

Alright man....u aint got nothin to worry bout accept worryin bout it. I use to hav a prob shootin my load during sex let alone gettin head.Everytime I was about to cum I remember da time before dat I couldn`t and disaster.4 girls in over a few weeks I couldn`t fire! But then I picked up this top notch bird I was into for ages. I was in to her big time n it was goin great.....needless to say I pumped holes in her,the reason being because this time round I forgot all about my previous encounters. You see,you need to relax,thinking bout it makes you tense,if your tense you wont offload. Also,I find rougly only 1 in 10 girls actually know how to give head and hand jobs. most younger girls dont know shit! In a lot of cases I`ve had to either stop them because of pain or actually guide them. Screw it man....grab them by da hair n show em da motion in da ocean