I tried looking in craigslist and gumtree but they seem to be full of scammers who will send you a premium rate mobile number. And other smart alecs who think its fun to mess with guys' heads. It's too difficult to find the genuine ones - if there are any anymore.

I don't like bars but I do want some no strings attached sex (ok, nothing original about that) and for some reason the idea of a prostitute just doesn't interest me. I wish it did since it would solve so much.

I'm a very fit, in good shape, tall and reasonably attractive 40 yr old intelligent and educated man who just wants some unattached fun and for the life of me I don't know where to find it!

I'm busy with my own business and, honestly, tossing myself off is getting boring. What's a guys supposed to do?

I'm really not the bar sort and don't want to play games with anyone.

I often read about how people meet on sites, forums, etc - can anyone tell me where?

adultfriendfinder is vast, its not cheap tho.
i went on there once but its quite intimidating to "fit in" so i beat a hasty retreat.

Not sure its that easy. I went mad over a couple days and put profiles on loads of dating sites including this one, but I haven't really bothered about them since. Some of them you have to pay £40-50-60 a month, which I'm not prepared to pay...and some of them seem harder then pulling in a pub/club. Also I'm not interested in going on what would be a blind date miles away, when I know I have women in my own area after me

Personally I think if you cant get one night stands in a pub or club, not sure it will be any easier on a website....but if you find one, let us all know

I fancy some cheesecake

Thanks for the replies, guys - I kinda suspected as much. There's no such thing as easy to find nsa sex! I'm sure most of the profiles on these sites are created by the site owners - and most of the ads on craigslist are by scammers with a premium rate number at the ready.

Actually, the way I meet women nowadays is mostly through dating sites but those women are mostly looking for a relationship so unless I strike it lucky and they fancy me anyway I can't go into the big lie with someone who I know its not gonna work out with.

I guess if there was a brothel around the corner I might just give myself a good talking to and go there - after all the drinks and meals you end up buying for dates it probably works out cheaper anyway.

Amybe I'm sounding cynical here. I don't mean to. But the last couple of women I got involved in were totally wrong and I have to say the sex was part of the draw - having a cock makes for some really silly mistakes.

You could try going to dogging areas. There are numerous such sites across the country Lists of those areas can be found on the internet. They are also a lot cheaper than sites like adult friend finder.

I tried there once, but got too many women showing an interest! [/quote]


I read this post too quick ... and thought you meant you'd tried the dogging areas