and to the girl that doubted me when i said he was for real (you know who you are you little minx).....

I told you so!

Done it.
Pretty much hate it.
Odd feeling though.
No guy seems to understand the words 'Go slow!' though. Or the words 'Use more lube!"

its not just that its like his whole attitude to life and woman and his low self esteem too!!

Ok I came to this site to meet people and learn about ireland. I did not expect to be reading about anal sex but since thats the subject guess I will add my words lol.

I have given anal a couple of times with my last ex mostly. I think at first it was discomforting to her even though I was more then slow and plenty of lube. We looked around together and researched it alot. We found some great lubes that actualy have a slight numbing sensation and cooling sensation that helped her alot. Not only did they help her she enjoyed the feeling of it. The next thing is while having sex inserting a finger into the anus will usally greaty increase a womens orgasim and many times will be the best they have had. In the end no mater what you do you should educate your self about it. I mean we are all here on the web posting so im sure you can find information just as I have. There are alot of things that will drive a women to plesure if done right. Im only 22 and know far more then most men my age. Diffrence is I took the time to educate my self about the womens body, how the body reacts, and the diffrent ways to please a women. Now every women is diffrent, but there alot of techniques that will please them all. Also remember there is always something new that they have not had that may take them away. I say explore the womens body, every inch of it and have fun together even if its anal.

Well enjoy all, and yes the making sure its clean coment sounds like good advice.

LOL

Mark