so come on whos given/received it?

what did you think of it? lol come on dont be shy lol
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Think this can be a weird subject for women (and men lol) alot dont like to do it but once actually go through the weeks of easing it they actually enjoy.

One peice of advice i once read was 'ease gently making sure only the tip goes in first, use lots of lube and keep easing gently, as going in for the kill will send her through the roof'

Good advice, but don't forget relaxed and comfortable before you atart. Oh and how to keep it from being messy...

my only experience of anal was at uni after a night out with a girl in halls.


She asked me had i ever done it.

I said no but told her i would try anything once.

As i positioned myself behind her, she looked over her shoulder and said:

"make me cry"

so i did -

never done it since - (mainly cos the girls i have been involved with didnt want to)
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You've got to love masochists...

Though you could have used some prison lube

Ok, well to keep it clean -

Firstly, most gay men, if they know they're gonna get laid, don't eat for a day beforehand so that the system's cleared out. Obviously this is pretty extreme, and most anal isn't planned for most people, it's just something that happens. Make sure you've "cleared the system out" a while in advance, then take a shower together.

Get the soap and wash each other all over. You don't need to get invasive, just a light wash over a certain spot will do. You'll find generally that most of the stuff people seem to associate with anal - is crap. Literally, and it's wrong. You'll find that "area" is generally clear.

First of all, decide what kind you want - personally penetrative anal's fine, but I prefer providing a little special extra, having her lie on her front as I lick her from behind, rubbing her clit from underneath. If i'm feeling extra generous, she'll be getting it with a vibrator too.

Not even remotely anally invasive, and gives orgasms that knock a girl out. Even the stubborn ones.

Advice? Don't attempt anal after taking your date out for a curry. Don't fuck a girl in the ass if she doesn't want it. If she doesn't want it, she'll clench. If she clenches, she enjoys it less. You'll injure her, and can cause bleeding.

Also, and I don't want to ruin the fun, but penetrative anal sex will always cause minor damage to the insides of whomever is receiving. The sort of damage is similar to the small cuts you can get on the insides of your mouth after brushing your teeth too hard. These are avoidable, however it is possible that you can cause serious damage, so take it gently.

Also, lubricants - these are essential. I know everyone says it's obvious, but if it's not going in, it's either because you're not using enough, or because she (or he) doesn't want it to.

One last thing. It's not exclusively for gay guys and girls to receive anal. Guys have their g-spot up their arse. Even the most straight of them will crumple with pleasure if you take a strap-on to them, but all the same rules apply here too.

End of rant

In my experience guys already assume you are 'wet' enough already!

Well I'm sorry we need a little extra help!

It also helps if you massge a little first to get things relaxed a bit!

I mean they think they can just use naturally produced lubricant from your pussy!

I'm just talking about the blokes that dont seem to have a clue.... sometimes it can feel amazing.

I think it should be added that if it doesn't feel right then stop.

Another thought....

Its possibly a time when size really does matter..... if youre hung like a donkey you really need to lube that bad boy up!

If youve ever seen any of the Ben Dover films, he often shows just how it should be done.

I have never done anal but open to try it sometime maybe..just that I don't desire it much nor have I tried to influence a female in doing it in the past.

I always get the impression most girls don't like it? Can be gross? Is it sexy and a enhancer???

Personally I like creativity and innovation, but with anal, I like my penis in conventional sexual areas. But curious from comments from gals and guys too on this.

Well, the five or six girls I have had anal with enjoyed it immensley.

I beg to differ slightly:-
Inside there may be few or even no pleasure giving points, but the anus itself is loaded with nerve endings and feelings (if not then why do so many women derive pleasure from having their arsehole played with - whether penetrated or not?). Perhaps its the sensation of smooth hot things sliding through it that causes so much of the extacy and positive reaction I have witnessed.

Perhaps the best sensation for me is the feeling when I am initially easing it in, when her anal ring closes in behind my bell end and momentarily clamps on. At that point I hold for a minute or so, so the girl can get used to the stretching and relax to allow the rest in. Another good feeling is when deep inside, I can feel what is going on in her vagina. Whether it is fingers, vibrator (wonderful feeling) or another man.

I dont usually take the lead with anal - I usualy let tha ladies initiate it. Therefore I have only received positive feedback from them. If they didnt like it, they wouldnt encourage me to do it in the first place.