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15.09.2008, 22:31 quote

chikhai

Rather than fuck up another perfectly good thread with needless meandering (namely the 'Sexy Films' thread) I thought it'd be nice to touch upon a subject thats close to my heart; that being BDSM.

This covers a lot of ground, but the topic of simulated rape came up.

Okay, before the asexual crowd roll in and turn this into the inevitable trainwreck these forums have become famous for, I think I can safely account for everybody when I say that nobody is advocating rape. Can we nail that one before anyone goes crying to the mods? Good. Commencé au festival!

So how rough do you like it and how far do you go?

Personally, the rougher the better. Good sex should be red in tooth and claw. We're talking about something at the core of our psyche here and if our animal side is ever going to rear it's head it'll be in the bedroom (bathroom/kitchen/prison cell/confession booth/whatever). Biting, scratching, choking, spanking and a bit of verbal abuse thrown in for good measure. Anything goes.

Don't get me wrong; theres a time and a place for sensuality, and it should be enjoyed in equal measure. But theres a lot to be said for just letting go and just fucking. Or being fucked for that matter. Just as nature intended.

So, anymore 'perverts' out there?

I know theres at least two...

 

15.09.2008, 22:49 quote

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i like ... being spanked, i have been whipped it was ok, having my hair pulled, being held down, parts of me being bitten/nibbled, i like being tied up tight/blindfolded/gagged ... i like the whole soft and romantic but i also like the living daylights being banged out of me
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16.09.2008, 07:15 quote

deepthroath

chikhai wrote:
So, anymore 'perverts' out there?

I know theres at least two...


Ahem!

Chikhai, again, nailed it on the head.

And no, i am not advocating rape at all, as i explained in another thread, lack of control is a very sexual thing for me.

Soft and sensual bores the living crap out of me. To me, personally, soft and sensual is pants. I suppose there is a time and a place (er, not in my house...) but seriously, if you think about the last time you had a really good fuck, was it all slow and asmoochy and full of "...I love you..."?

Not for me it wasnt. The last good fuck i had, i was spanked, slapped around the face, i had my hair pulled to the point that my neck was twisted and i couldn't move for fear of breaking something and i was pinned by my wrists, on my front and fucked stupid, whilst being a slut, a whore, a dirty bitch etc. . . I came so much i could barely stand afterwards.

Just thinking about it now makes me dizzy.

So yes Chikhai, the harder, dirtier and rougher the fuckin better!

Does that actually make me a pervert?

 

16.09.2008, 09:12 quote

titwhipper
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Treated with respect out of the bedroom is very important, whilst, bieng treated with no respect in the bedroom is equally important.

Rude sex and dirty fuckers.

It's ..not, an aquired taste as per say...,

My first time was a strange [yet highly arousing] situation. Bieng confronted with a girl that says to the like of " spit in my mouth..slap me..call me a whore..pull my hair..squeeze my tits..choke my throat balls deep...." You get the picture.

Then after we drank some herbal tea. It had nothing to do with rape. It has all to do with rude and dirty sex and is fucking brilliant.
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16.09.2008, 09:45 quote

Hugglies
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titwhipper wrote:
Treated with respect out of the bedroom is very important, whilst, bieng treated with no respect in the bedroom is equally important.


Good Quote in regards to couples.....


Personally i love a bit of the ruff stuff I've always been a bit of a switch....happy to play either the dominent or subservant role although in the past in all honesty i haven't really found a guy who could properly dominate me...i've been told I might be a bit intimidating so maybe thats why

When being Dom i love to tease...to tie someone up and tease the hell out of them is great fun...its powerful to hold someone on the edge for as long as possible before giving them the relief they crave

I have never spanked or 'tortured' any of my exs i wouldn't want to cause any phyiscal pain without knowing it was 'wanted'...and i was never asked to go that far

The first time I went to Torture Garden ( Fetish Nightclub) a guy came along and asked to lick my boots...it was kind of surreal..he was at it for at least an hour while i carried on chatting to my mates, smoking and drinking....the act itself wasn't as much of a turn on as the fact this complete stranger was 'worshipping' my boots...pretty kinky

Personally I love to have my hair pulled, I love being bitten and spanked..I love a bit of dirty talk and i like to be thrown about abit..I love being held down..I'm not so sure about having my face slapped or spat in tho...everyone has their boundries I guess and as long as those boundaries are respected then most things go.....



As far as rape fantasy's go...thats just what it is a fantasy... the reality would be nothing like what was imagined no women would actually want to be raped but many women do fantasise about it



Chikhai wrote:
Don't get me wrong; theres a time and a place for sensuality, and it should be enjoyed in equal measure. But theres a lot to be said for just letting go and just fucking. Or being fucked for that matter. Just as nature intended


Well said that man
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16.09.2008, 10:43 quote

cheekykev
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I'm all for a bit of 'rough'...

but being spat on or slapped around the face - Fuck off!

 

16.09.2008, 10:45 quote

Cazzabee
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And once again straight to the point from the Claudster Laughing Laughing

I'm not sure on my thoughts on this one quite yet but I will return
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16.09.2008, 10:46 quote

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Thanks Cazz... and hope all goes ok tomorrow hun x

 

16.09.2008, 10:59 quote

deepthroath

Being spat at, no.

Slapped - fuck yes!

 

16.09.2008, 11:53 quote

titwhipper
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Moral Compass. That's a good point, we sell a varied range of pr0n films at the shop let me give you a few ideas about them.

Well, there are the drowning ones, cat fights, anal fisting, scrotum pin cushion piercing, transexual, bi-sexual, homo sexual, latex, mud, midgets, jailbait, 60+, overweight, milf, gangbangs( 1 girl ), pissing and shitting, bondage, plastic wrap, vacuum, whipping, throatgagging, Andrew Blake, and then there are the garage rape films.

As you can see from the few examples given there is maybe one or two that may interest YOU. The rest is what interests them.

Now let's look at that Moral Compass again. Sex and prostition is widley accepted allowed and lawful in Holland Belgium and Germany and not in the UK, yet sexual crimes are higher in the UK compared to the other three countries.

Please, let it be or start a thread to discuss rape. BDSM is rarely spoken of and is always scorned upon by the narrow minded. The OP began with a fantastic post followed by a few good replies, let's not destroy this thread.
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16.09.2008, 12:15 quote

kizz
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cheekykev wrote:
I'm all for a bit of 'rough'...

but being spat on or slapped around the face - Fuck off!


Ditto!!! But (been said already, I know) there are individual and personal limits. As long as those limits are in place, before the action gets going...with a partner you trust, then all is good with it. IMO Twisted Evil Also... I have been raped....I know how vile it is to be raped and simulated rape is not the same thing at all.

 

16.09.2008, 12:29 quote

Cazzabee
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titwhipper wrote:
Please, let it be or start a thread to discuss rape. BDSM is rarely spoken of and is always scorned upon by the narrow minded. The OP began with a fantastic post followed by a few good replies, let's not destroy this thread.


Already has been TW...see here (and lots of experiences given and good advice given):

http://www.flirtbox.net/advice/rape-.html

Many valid points on both threads but I think I stand where Kizz is on this one. I'm not a fan of BDSM but I know the fantasy is out there and each person is entitled to do what they wish. I think the point Chikhai was making was that it's with someone you know and trust so there is always going to be some type of control to it between you. Nobody on this thread is advocating men or women that go out and rape random stragers just for the thrill of it where the person being raped has no say or control of the situation. Well thats how im reading it anyway.

Now lets not have this descending into a slanging match please peeps
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16.09.2008, 12:30 quote

deepthroath

So therefore, from now on, its EFS, not rape fantasies.

That told you lot!

 

16.09.2008, 12:46 quote

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DeepthroatH wrote:
So therefore, from now on, its EFS, not rape fantasies.

That told you lot!


just doing my bit for the world











well.....the BDSM world....

 

16.09.2008, 13:27 quote

Hugglies
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Ok for now I'm going to lock this

Because its all getting very petty and childish

Which i think is a shame because it started out as a good discussion


Once everyone calms down a little I or one of the other mod's will perhaps unlock it
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