Sex >> A bit if a rant concerning F**k buddies

12.02.2007, 21:48 quote

Anonymous

Oh do f*ck off...

john says:
so.. what are ur thoughts in what i am looking for?
san says:
well im not 100% sure what youre looking for, you appear to be looking for a fuckbuddy with the sugar coated title of a friend/lover. would that be about right
John says:
well i guess a fck buddy means that both people are piece of meat
John says:
that is not for me
John says:
does that make sense?
san says:
kinda
John says:
so.. a friendship is a natural thing
John says:
for me that is
John says:
and then the sx
John says:
bonus
san says:
so kinda courtship?
John says:
kinda.. but less formal..
John says:
i mean courtship sounds very formal to me
san says:
lol i didnt mean formal, im just trying to find a name for what yure looking for
san says:
dating ?
John says:
i guess for me dating is a very formal thing
san says:
so just shagging then
John says:
as well as being mates
san says:
fuckbuddy then
san says:
lol
John says:
drink wine together
John says:
have a laugh
John says:
listen to music, hang out
John says:
and yeah.. shag
John says:
lol
John says:
is that ok with u?
san says:
no thank you, but good luck

honeslty, why do I waste my time in chatting to people? I dont want to be anyones fuck buddy.

What a waste of 10 mins that was. I like chatting and getting to know new ppl, but I really hate it when random blokes think they can get a shag out of you if they sugar coat it.

12.02.2007, 21:51 quote

Anonymous

Really GG I think you were putting words in his mouth there. He seems to just be scared of the realtionship words (which is not uncommon!) and he did say that he thought f*** buddies were treating people like pieces of meat.

Just my thoughts

12.02.2007, 21:53 quote

Anonymous

pollyanna37 wrote:

Really GG I think you were putting words in his mouth there. He seems to just be scared of the realtionship words (which is not uncommon!) and he did say that he thought f*** buddies were treating people like pieces of meat.

Just my thoughts

Even dating is formal to him, dating is the least formal thing two ppl can do, all thats left belew dating is random shagging, surely we all know that? but him saying have a drink and then shag, however its worded its the same as having a f*ckbuddy, its just dressed up differently.

12.02.2007, 22:05 quote

Anonymous

My analysis: he wants the shagging, wants to eat and drink in your company, but doesn't want to *call it* dating/a relationship.

Yeah, you're right; either he just wants a shag, or a regular shag, or a regular shag with the option to do whatever he wants with anyone else, because after all, you're not 'dating'. Rolling Eyes

I think he was trying his best to be honest but keep you interested at the same time!

He's probably married Confused

12.02.2007, 22:32 quote

Anonymous

haha, that just really made me laugh...

i love the way he tried to sugarcoat it, badly..

he would prob get more action if he was honest from the start

13.02.2007, 00:04 quote

Aradon

Joined: 10 Aug 2006 Posts: 3090 Location: United Kingdom, England, Greater Manchester

This belongs in the sex forum tbh

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13.02.2007, 08:40 quote

Anonymous

Mewler!! head, nail spot on!! hahah

sorry yeah wrong folder.. Sad

What I dont get is why not befriend someone, have a laugh and then maybe decided a bit later if maybe its a good idea to meet. Nothing puts me off more than someone going straight in for the kill within 5 minutes. My block list is massive!!