Oh do f*ck off...

john says:
so.. what are ur thoughts in what i am looking for?
san says:
well im not 100% sure what youre looking for, you appear to be looking for a fuckbuddy with the sugar coated title of a friend/lover. would that be about right
John says:
well i guess a fck buddy means that both people are piece of meat
John says:
that is not for me
John says:
does that make sense?
san says:
kinda
John says:
so.. a friendship is a natural thing
John says:
for me that is
John says:
and then the sx
John says:
bonus
san says:
so kinda courtship?
John says:
kinda.. but less formal..
John says:
i mean courtship sounds very formal to me
san says:
lol i didnt mean formal, im just trying to find a name for what yure looking for
san says:
dating ?
John says:
i guess for me dating is a very formal thing
san says:
so just shagging then
John says:
as well as being mates
san says:
fuckbuddy then
san says:
lol
John says:
drink wine together
John says:
have a laugh
John says:
listen to music, hang out
John says:
and yeah.. shag
John says:
lol
John says:
is that ok with u?
san says:
no thank you, but good luck

honeslty, why do I waste my time in chatting to people? I dont want to be anyones fuck buddy.

What a waste of 10 mins that was. I like chatting and getting to know new ppl, but I really hate it when random blokes think they can get a shag out of you if they sugar coat it.

Really GG I think you were putting words in his mouth there. He seems to just be scared of the realtionship words (which is not uncommon!) and he did say that he thought f*** buddies were treating people like pieces of meat.

Just my thoughts

My analysis: he wants the shagging, wants to eat and drink in your company, but doesn't want to *call it* dating/a relationship.

Yeah, you're right; either he just wants a shag, or a regular shag, or a regular shag with the option to do whatever he wants with anyone else, because after all, you're not 'dating'.

I think he was trying his best to be honest but keep you interested at the same time!

He's probably married

haha, that just really made me laugh...

i love the way he tried to sugarcoat it, badly..

he would prob get more action if he was honest from the start

This belongs in the sex forum tbh

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What I dont get is why not befriend someone, have a laugh and then maybe decided a bit later if maybe its a good idea to meet. Nothing puts me off more than someone going straight in for the kill within 5 minutes. My block list is massive!!

I call my block list the slapper list and it's quiet extensive as well

hehe

also the guy said he knew my from faceparty, so theres a good chance Id bocked him before.

I haven't actually blocked anyone....I just tend to ignore them

Aaawwwww spdarkhorse, i like ya! lol
Can't imagine why the ladies in your area aren't inundating you with messages!