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01.06.2006, 21:39 quote

oneononeluva
Joined: 17 May 2006 Posts: 34 Location: United Kingdom, England, London
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Mike456 wrote:
pinkdevil wrote:
i kno its annoying. all of my m8s hav bf's so i feel like the odd 1 out and i miss the closeness of bein with a guy


people seem to think I'm "fine" and that I'm not having any problems coping with the loss of my last ex. But I'm finding it hard still to fully get over, she's hurt me more than anyone has hurt me before.


Mike456, I really sympathise with you.

There was a woman i was once very fond of. Even though i treated her so well (money, emotional support, etc), i realised i was just her "emotional punch bag" for all the times men had maltreated her. At the time i didn't realise she was taking it out on me. On one occasion, she even attacked me with a kitchen knife. My good nature was wasted on her.

Since mid-summer 1997, everyday of my life has been like a repentance on the kind of man i am. I mean the real meaning of the word 'repentance', as in 'turn 180 degrees to see - me'. Sorry if i sound like i'm going on...

 

01.06.2006, 22:01 quote

oneononeluva
Joined: 17 May 2006 Posts: 34 Location: United Kingdom, England, London
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flowerangelaura wrote:
Mike456 wrote:


You need someone who's going to listen to you, and give you half the chance to fully understand you. A lot of people use Prejudgement on people and it's that which can make people not like another person. I wish someone would give me a chance to explain myself, and how I feel. Then maybe someone could see who I really am, instead of looking at this vast ball of Vaseline typing on a keyboard.


There will always be stupid judgemental people. I sometimes judge people, and i hate myself for it. It's just human nature, though.

Most people don't understand me.


Laura, you sound like - me!
In the late 1990s, I felt as if NOBODY understood me - not family, not friends, no-one.
To be brief, I didn't realise what was happening until it became critical.
The irony is that, although I am happier now, I reckon people understand me LESS.
Even now when i go out in the street, to me, people look as if they're afraid of me.

 

01.06.2006, 22:28 quote

oneononeluva
Joined: 17 May 2006 Posts: 34 Location: United Kingdom, England, London
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Sorry for my 'waffling'. I'm on the subject now - love.

(God, that word still sounds and feels taboo/forbidden/evil!)

I have love a lot lot more than i used to.
But after my partner(s) and i have had/enjoyed love,
i still get a strange latent feeling - i sense something,
like emotional clouds of shame, fear, guilt, inadequacy.
As if love is something i shouldn't be having.
A battle within me between the culturally conditioned moralist
and the natural testosterone-fuelled sexbeast!
The moralist has won some of the battles, but is losing the war.

 

01.06.2006, 22:56 quote

Nyreen
Joined: 22 May 2006 Posts: 55 Location: United Kingdom, England, Birmingham
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Hey Sam....don't worry, i'm not interesed, just curious to know....'You say you prefer older women right? Does that mean for marriage as well?'...

 

02.06.2006, 11:17 quote

Anonymous

no silly i get turned on with an older woman Very Happy

 

02.06.2006, 11:33 quote

Anonymous

oneononeluva wrote:

Laura, you sound like - me!
In the late 1990s, I felt as if NOBODY understood me - not family, not friends, no-one.
To be brief, I didn't realise what was happening until it became critical.
The irony is that, although I am happier now, I reckon people understand me LESS.
Even now when i go out in the street, to me, people look as if they're afraid of me.


My family are the worse(not my immediate family, i'm talking about uncles and aunties). They are so judgemental, and they all bitch about each other.

There's only two people in the world that I feel like they don't judge me, and they are my best friends.

Most of the people i talk to tend to judge me because i'm opinionated on a lot of things.

 

02.06.2006, 11:56 quote

PrincessTamz
PrincessTamz Joined: 15 Feb 2006 Posts: 470 Location: United Kingdom, England, Essex
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Laura I can identify with that! I find that People either love me or hate me... usually for my honesty!

People say they want you to be honest but the truth is they really dont unless its something they want to hear!

Dont go changing Laura, you'll be a alot happier in the long run IMO.

 

02.06.2006, 12:01 quote

Anonymous

Very Happy

 

02.06.2006, 19:53 quote

missme7

Sam, just wanna say about your previous post where you mentioned people would think it was wrong to see you with an older woman, why worry about it?
I'm 34 and I've been out with lots of much younger men and frankly I dont give a damn about what anyone says or thinks about it.

 

02.06.2006, 20:07 quote

Anonymous

good on you woman because i thinks its great too thanks hun Very Happy

 

02.06.2006, 20:11 quote

missme7

Yeh I dont know why people are so obssessed with age, it really doesn't come into it for me. As long as both parties like each other then thats what matters Very Happy

 

02.06.2006, 20:16 quote

Anonymous

Some people are hung-up on age.

I would happily date or have a relationship or whatever with a guy that was older than me.

 

02.06.2006, 20:21 quote

missme7

Good on you Laura Very Happy I've been out with blokes 15 years older and also 15 years younger so its all good.

 

03.06.2006, 07:06 quote

Anonymous

I did actually go out with an older guy, not that long ago..People were looking at him as if to say 'pervert'...stupid people. He wasn't even that old. 30 compared to 18?!

 

03.06.2006, 13:08 quote

pinkdevil
pinkdevil Joined: 04 Mar 2006 Posts: 22 Location: United Kingdom, England, Suffolk
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my ex was 32 and i was 17 and no1 could understand what i saw in an older man. but u cant help who u fall 4 can u. my friend thinks im attracted 2 older men and no1 my own age but im trying 2 show her that u cant help who u like. maybe she wil kno once she has had a bf

 
 
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