Obviously, as with everything in life, its each to his/her own. But personally I think it's one of the most amazing things a woman could ever do to a guy - well, to me at least. I think a lot of women are put off cause they see it as a 'violent' or 'aggressive' act but thats not particularly how I would like it. Nice and smooth and gentle at first at least.

Yeah - Understandable that! It's just like men giving anal to women though really if you think about it. LoL - I knoiw what you mean about the 'agression' thing but for me thats the wrong word - I'd express it more as the feeling that the woman would be in total control!!! She has the power to direct things and be in complete control!