if you're a studious type then reading some relevant books should help you a lot, for instance about body language to know when they are interested or not. You're probably the type that has confidence ...

so what's happened in the 45-58 age group?

Dating *is* ultimately a numbers game and you can't rely on finding the right person in a small selection. If your target field is potentially small, bein ...

aha good luck on trying to pin this one down. When I did, generally I'd say

a)they look/sound like they're into similar things
b)they look at least moderately attractive to me
c)There's somethin ...

going quiet round girls is kind of like self-imposed pressure. Like you're thinking if you say the wrong thing its gonna be blown. Like you're there to impress her. Forget that sh*t. When you meet the ...

as far as this online dating thing goes, it's practice and trying too figure out what works best. a random selection of ppl on a dating site is a slice of society. think bell curve. what works best wo ...

Stuff like honesty is really a matter of faith and anyway people view honesty in different ways. Best you can hope for is, if there was something u needed to know they'd tell you sooner rather than la ...

Hi, i'm new to this, but i'm pretty much a geek, have 3 PC's and 2 laptops all networked, have done the RPG thing (and still got the games), was a regional winner in the 2nd Golden Demon Awards (run ...

Ok so Im new to this but I am really surprised how some blokes feel ok sending a complete stranger a dirty message by way of introduction.(what happened to hi?)I kinda assumed that the persons prof ...

That all sounds a bit tactical to me, in a greystone kind of way... if you meet someone and they dont fancy you, i think you just have to deal with it and move on. doing all that reverse psychology st ...

following samatron's reverse psychology

actually the only way to avoid the friendzone is to put them in it first. It's not as risky as it sounds because by and large guys can be persuaded out of it ...

final fantasy xi online for me all the way.

Given the abundance of computers and ppl who, lets face it, don't know what they're doing half the time lol, guys who know how to fix stuff are in demand. However it helps immensely to develop a non-g ...

inconsistent behaviour is possibly a sign that as much as she might like you, for whatever reason isn't into putting in the time required to get to know you better. Unfortunately, you might just be th ...

I spent quite a lot of time today just doing quite a few messages for people (and i do mean quite a lot!). i made each message quite personal. no replies from any of them at all.


unless things h ...

dating sites are a pretty surreal experience and at the same time a real eye opener into the minds of the general populace. Although by all account the experience between the sexes is wildly different ...