i have met a georgous guy.... but really dont know if he really likes me.... how do i goabout finding out without making myself look easy or to forward?

come on guys..... how do i ask withut being to obvious?

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All I can say is you can either tell, or you can't.
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I got in touch with my feminine side. She emailed me back saying if I ever contacted her again she'd call the police.

You don't ask! Well, not straighaway!

OK, you could try the Zenderovian courtship ritual:
You slap him around the face a few times, grab his lapels, put your nose right up against his and say in a low, sexy voice, ‘Look! I fancy you like MAD! Can we start shagging straightaway? If so,‘ You shout over your shoulder, as your run off, ‘If you catch me, it’s your turn to do the slapping!’

An English method would be, perhaps, a little subterfuge?
(One you could confess to, and have a laugh about, if things work out.)

Tell him you’re writing a piece for the Dog Handler’s Gazette on <the local top restaurant> and you need someone to go along with you and give you another opinion.
If he asks, ‘Why me?’ You can say, ‘Why not?’ or ‘Coz you look a bit of a guzzle-gut!’ or ‘You look like someone who likes his food.’
Or ‘You look like a man with discerning tastes.’
If he asks, ‘Who pays?’ You can say, ‘We’d have to go Dutch, I’m afraid.’
If he says, ‘Oh, I don’t like Japanese fusion foods <or whatever>… Couldn’t we go to <some other restaurant>?’ You say, ‘Fine! So long as it’s a good restaurant in town.’
If he says, ‘Are you really writing a piece?’ You can say, ‘No, but did you fancy a meal anyway?’
If he just says, ‘When?’ I think you can say he likes you. Or his food! Or both!

If the subterfuge continues - bring along your notepad, as this gives you something to hide behind. It also allows you to ask all sorts of nosey questions (normally not permitted without one )!
At the end of the evening you can say, ‘Would you like to do this again? Promise I’ll leave my notepad at home! Maybe try <his favourite restaurant>, if you like.’
If he says, ‘Yes.’ That’s a good sign.
If he says, ‘Yes, please,’ or ‘I’d like that.’ I think you can say he likes you. Or his food! Or both!
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