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30.10.2010, 23:34 quote
Ok here goes. I'm 46 with two teenagers both great (of course). Been married for 20 years and I found out she was having an affair. Completely destroyed me at the time but I have kepyt the sham going for the sake of the kids - yes I know they're quite old and will understand but they're both going thru exams etc etc, and for me to leave them would be a mare for all and sundry. I just want to meet a woman who will understand that I'm after friendship and poss romance and that I'm not some sort of git who's cheating on their partner!! Help !!
02.11.2010, 20:00 quote
If that is what your after, put it in your profile. Those that don't believe you aren't worth the effort anyway !
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02.11.2010, 20:33 quote
| lumpymash wrote: |
| Ok here goes. I'm 46 with two teenagers both great (of course). Been married for 20 years and I found out she was having an affair. Completely destroyed me at the time but I have kepyt the sham going for the sake of the kids - yes I know they're quite old and will understand but they're both going thru exams etc etc, and for me to leave them would be a mare for all and sundry. I just want to meet a woman who will understand that I'm after friendship and poss romance and that I'm not some sort of git who's cheating on their partner!! Help !! |
If you plan to sort it out once your teens have finished their exams, can I suggest that YOU don't leave the family home before your wife.
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02.11.2010, 21:25 quote
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If you plan to sort it out once your teens have finished their exams, can I suggest that YOU don't leave the family home before your wife. |
why would that make the difference? She's the whore for cheating in the first place.
02.11.2010, 22:34 quote
| lumpymash wrote: |
| Ok here goes. I'm 46 with two teenagers both great (of course). Been married for 20 years and I found out she was having an affair. Completely destroyed me at the time but I have kepyt the sham going for the sake of the kids - yes I know they're quite old and will understand but they're both going thru exams etc etc, and for me to leave them would be a mare for all and sundry. I just want to meet a woman who will understand that I'm after friendship and poss romance and that I'm not some sort of git who's cheating on their partner!! Help !! |
Really you should sort out your life first before you become friends or romantically involved with someone. You seem clever enough not to make any rash decisions, so give yourself time to get things together.
03.11.2010, 15:58 quote
| lumpymash wrote: |
| Ok here goes. I'm 46 with two teenagers both great (of course). Been married for 20 years and I found out she was having an affair. Completely destroyed me at the time but I have kepyt the sham going for the sake of the kids - yes I know they're quite old and will understand but they're both going thru exams etc etc, and for me to leave them would be a mare for all and sundry. I just want to meet a woman who will understand that I'm after friendship and poss romance and that I'm not some sort of git who's cheating on their partner!! Help !! |
I will go for it mate, there will be some that will understand. It wont be easy, but if you find someone that is attracted to you, you should be okay. You just have to be honest.
There are plenty of couples that have split up, but still living in the same house nowadays.
03.11.2010, 17:30 quote
Thanks for the views , all. Appreciate it. Like Jeggae above says will just be honest and open and see what happens. I guess the ones that 'understand' will be the best matches for me. Hopefully there's one out there !! Cheers
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