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21.04.2007, 22:40 quote

Anonymous

Would you do it or want to do it? With your wife or girlfriend? I couldn’t do it myself as im far too jealous to watch someone I love have love with another man, ….but then again do you truly love someone if you do something like that? I actually know a few people who do this and im puzzled why they do it. The same question could be asked of women too with their partner …..

 

21.04.2007, 23:20 quote

Anonymous

i dunno it depends... actually i dont think i could.. i would be too worried about it all, imagine if there better in bed then you, and all that crap

 

22.04.2007, 00:11 quote

Anonymous

No way ... i wouldnt share kev with anyone .... and if he hadnt deleted his profile today, i'd like to think he felt the same ..... Its just not my thing , not saying its wrong, each to thir own Wink

 

22.04.2007, 07:33 quote

Anonymous

No, I couldn't. My boyfriend is very, very open-minded but knows how I feel so won't do it and I had the opportunity a few weeks ago to have love with someone else. I admit it was tempting, guess it was the novelty, but couldn't go ahead. It's just not me.

 

22.04.2007, 09:45 quote

Anonymous

If i was in love with someone then thre is no way i would want them to sleep with somone else, and there is no way i could do it to them.
I know i would be so jealous and hurt and it would end the relationship coz i wouldnt be able to cope!

 

22.04.2007, 11:03 quote

Anonymous

Definatly NO. I dont know how people could either.

 

22.04.2007, 11:08 quote

Anonymous

No. No way. I'm not possesive, but no.

 

22.04.2007, 11:44 quote

Anonymous

To be honest, his not being bothered if I had (unattatched) love with someone is making me feel more and more undervalued no matter how much he says otherwise Confused

 

22.04.2007, 12:06 quote

Anonymous

redoctober wrote:
To be honest, his not being bothered if I had (unattatched) love with someone is making me feel more and more undervalued no matter how much he says otherwise Confused
dont sweat it red... hes a man and thinks it would be cool... but if he saw you with another man he would prob freak..
dreams arent always as good as they seem when there turned into reality

 

22.04.2007, 13:12 quote

Anonymous

twistedvoilet wrote:
redoctober wrote:
To be honest, his not being bothered if I had (unattatched) love with someone is making me feel more and more undervalued no matter how much he says otherwise Confused
dont sweat it red... hes a man and thinks it would be cool... but if he saw you with another man he would prob freak..
dreams arent always as good as they seem when there turned into reality


Its not a fantasy with him. He's been in open relationships before. He's incredibly laid back. It would only bother him if he thought it was more than love, but it's a very rare occasion I have love with someone I'm not in some way attracted to. It just feels wrong.

 

22.04.2007, 13:24 quote

loubylou

i personally couldnt do it but that doesnt mean that after many years of marriage and wanting a little different i wouldnt be open to it who knows?guess you would have to be very settled and have a very strong and secure relationship to consider it?

 

22.04.2007, 16:59 quote

loubylou

you can seperate the two functions of love as one for bonding and emotional (making love) and the other more raw and fulfilling primal needs that doesnt always need any real feeling just need (lusty love)i know and have experienced both thanks

 

22.04.2007, 20:32 quote

Anonymous

Cazzabee wrote:
Wish i had a man to swap Laughing Crying or Very sad


but what would you swap him for?

 

22.04.2007, 20:41 quote

Anonymous

Cazzabee wrote:
Leglover227 wrote:
Cazzabee wrote:
Wish i had a man to swap Laughing Crying or Very sad


but what would you swap him for?


Bottle of vodka and a big cream cake Laughing

Bottle of Baileys and a banoffi pie drool

 

22.04.2007, 20:51 quote

Anonymous

Cazzabee wrote:
Leglover227 wrote:
Cazzabee wrote:
Wish i had a man to swap Laughing Crying or Very sad


but what would you swap him for?


Bottle of vodka and a big cream cake Laughing


is that all !? thought you would have at least gone for 2 bottles of vodka

 
 
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