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22.04.2007, 00:24 quote

elitious
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Why we all need love, its energy that keeps us pushing in the hope of light or its warmth or we just need it. if we all need love then why every one is searching an no one finds one, the one they do lose it to madness that follows. then why are we searching for it in the first place. Confused

 

22.04.2007, 07:38 quote

Anonymous

That's a tough question Elitious and most likely different for each person.

For me its the feeling of being able to give, to make someone else feel warm, happy, comfortable. To be there when the going gets tough, but also to have that back. I want someone there for me when the going gets tough, 'cos lets face it, if you get through the tough stuff on your own when you have a partner, you might as well be single.

 

22.04.2007, 09:43 quote

Anonymous

Everyone needs love........ that feeling that someone adores you and would do anything for you, and you would do the same in return...that feeling that you wouldnt be able to breath if you never saw them again.
The butterflys in your stomach when you hear them knock on your door.

And like red said, having someone to lean on when times are hard, knowing there is always someone who cares.

 

22.04.2007, 18:29 quote

elitious
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but isn't like a drug that induce our minds and leave us craving for more. as with anything supplies just ends and we search and search util the hope dies. so if that is destined and there is not eternal love, then why we want to have it. and this brings us to square one, why we need love? . if we just end up lost.

 

22.04.2007, 18:32 quote

Anonymous

elitious wrote:
but isn't like a drug that induce our minds and leave us craving for more. as with anything supplies just ends and we search and search util the hope dies. so if that is destined and there is not eternal love, then why we want to have it. and this brings us to square one, why we need love? . if we just end up lost.

I think it's to satisfy a basic instinct Elitious. We need to feel needed, wanted and want to give that in return.

 

22.04.2007, 18:33 quote

Anonymous

i'd rather bleed with cuts of love, then live without any scars

 

22.04.2007, 18:48 quote

elitious
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twistedvoilet wrote:
i'd rather bleed with cuts of love, then live without any scars


the scars of the memories that just wouldn't fade away or the scars as medals of failures ? or scars of how hard you tried just to lose youself to just live forever with aim of forever now even days go in slow, or scars of a fairy tale told by u to u?. i don't say i don't carry scars of the past, but i still want it. that makes me wonder why?.

 

22.04.2007, 18:58 quote

Anonymous

its meant to mean, love does hurt, love is deep, so hence the scars

 

22.04.2007, 19:05 quote

elitious
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twistedvoilet wrote:
its meant to mean, love does hurt, love is deep, so hence the scars


ok, what will u do if some one tell u to cut ur hand, will u do it.? Embarassed

 

22.04.2007, 19:11 quote

Anonymous

no dont be silly...

 

22.04.2007, 19:13 quote

Anonymous

elitious wrote:
twistedvoilet wrote:
its meant to mean, love does hurt, love is deep, so hence the scars


ok, what will u do if some one tell u to cut ur hand, will u do it.? Embarassed


No, because the inevitable pain isn't worth it, but humans are an optimistic species on the whole and each time we fall in love we hope it's the last time.

 

22.04.2007, 19:19 quote

Anonymous

redoctober wrote:
elitious wrote:
twistedvoilet wrote:
its meant to mean, love does hurt, love is deep, so hence the scars


ok, what will u do if some one tell u to cut ur hand, will u do it.? Embarassed


No, because the inevitable pain isn't worth it, but humans are an optimistic species on the whole and each time we fall in love we hope it's the last time.
oh red, the voice of wisdom speaks again

 

22.04.2007, 19:40 quote

elitious
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twistedvoilet wrote:
redoctober wrote:
elitious wrote:
twistedvoilet wrote:
its meant to mean, love does hurt, love is deep, so hence the scars


ok, what will u do if some one tell u to cut ur hand, will u do it.? Embarassed


No, because the inevitable pain isn't worth it, but humans are an optimistic species on the whole and each time we fall in love we hope it's the last time.
oh red, the voice of wisdom speaks again


the point was if some one tell u to cut ur hand u know its gona hurt u wouldn't do it, it is exactly the same if u fall in love its gona hurt so why we do it? i know there possibilities are equally likely. so why do it ?

 

22.04.2007, 19:57 quote

Anonymous

elitious wrote:
twistedvoilet wrote:
redoctober wrote:
elitious wrote:
twistedvoilet wrote:
its meant to mean, love does hurt, love is deep, so hence the scars


ok, what will u do if some one tell u to cut ur hand, will u do it.? Embarassed


No, because the inevitable pain isn't worth it, but humans are an optimistic species on the whole and each time we fall in love we hope it's the last time.
oh red, the voice of wisdom speaks again


the point was if some one tell u to cut ur hand u know its gona hurt u wouldn't do it, it is exactly the same if u fall in love its gona hurt so why we do it? i know there possibilities are equally likely. so why do it ?
well you know if you eat lots of cake it'll prob make you fat...
you dont expect to fall in love it just happens, you hope you will and when you do, its fantastic. but each time you do, you dont expect it to hurt..
where as cake, you think oh i'll just have a little bit and cos its so nice you have more, then prob end up overeating, etc..

i have cake on the brain so this prob doesnt make sense

 

22.04.2007, 20:06 quote

Anonymous

twistedvoilet wrote:
elitious wrote:
twistedvoilet wrote:
redoctober wrote:
elitious wrote:
twistedvoilet wrote:
its meant to mean, love does hurt, love is deep, so hence the scars


ok, what will u do if some one tell u to cut ur hand, will u do it.? Embarassed


No, because the inevitable pain isn't worth it, but humans are an optimistic species on the whole and each time we fall in love we hope it's the last time.
oh red, the voice of wisdom speaks again


the point was if some one tell u to cut ur hand u know its gona hurt u wouldn't do it, it is exactly the same if u fall in love its gona hurt so why we do it? i know there possibilities are equally likely. so why do it ?
well you know if you eat lots of cake it'll prob make you fat...
you dont expect to fall in love it just happens, you hope you will and when you do, its fantastic. but each time you do, you dont expect it to hurt..
where as cake, you think oh i'll just have a little bit and cos its so nice you have more, then prob end up overeating, etc..

i have cake on the brain so this prob doesnt make sense

why are you hiding behind that tree thingy? Confused

 
 
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