I honestly think that it is because they had hoped to get something from you that they found out that you dont have or will not let go. For example, I know guys who talk to girls for sex or money. After they get these they move on to another unsuspecting victims. Some just thought that you were M. Right and found out that you werent compatible and dont know how to impart that to us. Some guys are just not nice.

just to put balance to this thread, not all men are tw@ts, it's just the majority making a bad name for us all

Backing up Muse & chieOHara

Firslty, women says it just as much as men...ut they also use 'fake'orgams1
secondly

When yout a teenager, ealry 20s or just plain insecure, & you fond of someone & don't want to feel anything negative, any rejection & you want them to be fond of you too, Infatuated even,you tend to say much more than you mean

Actions do speak louder than words,but if you don't believe the words & wait for action, then you don't trust them & the relationship has already failed. also action is more than the materialistic stuff...it's the listening (& of course being listend too), the sharing, consideration, energy, quality time, mutual repsewct...you know...the basics. womne love the SMALL things that you do far more than the elaborate.

As for guys..wlell the more theyread 'lads'mags, page 3, the mreo than their percption of womne ( I shoulds say 'girls' ) then ther more their perception is going to be reinforced. And girls buy into that too..goi to Bournemouth, Hull, Blackpool or Souty shileds on a saturday noght...the teenagers & older are lining up for attention & those fateful...morning after..words ILO

I said it to the same woman every day for ten years that i was married but that still did not stop her from running away with my best friend. It's a feeling. And i am not going to say that word again to any female that i am close to in my life for a long time. I will come when it comes and when it comes i will know it. Some of us do mean it when we say it.

I guess some men like the power they have over a women when the tell them this. Give my ex credit at least he told me he didn't love me anymore rather than saying he did to keep me there.

I once told my hampster when I was 15 that I loved it...........It just turned around and went into its little house I was heartbroken!.........Hmmm I just realised that I shouldnt share so much on these forums

theres a guy at my work who wants his ex wife back and has a girlfriend as well. last night he took the girlfriend out at 6pm for a meal, at 8.30 he told her he had to go to a poker game, then left to meet his ex wife for a meal at 9pm. Neither of the women know about each other, yet he wants to 'get rid' of the girlfriend. i dont understand why people do stuff like that, its a lot of time, expence, stress and money just for a bit of sex. thing is, he thinks he is really clever for doing it, most people at work think he is just a tosser

I spent 5 years with last bf he didnt say once he loved me, whats does that say...................
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