Every one wants to love and be loved, some men just can't show it others may not be ready for it. It's no different with women, not all women know how to show thier Affections (men don't have the Monopoly on that, Trust me i know). No one wants to be alone ...Except maybe Hermits, monks, lighthouse keepers, the lone ranger, Michael jackson and my dad.

None of that make any sence does it.

Actually this might be one of the most common misconceptions of our time. I think the majority of men do want love, but they want the soul-searing, supernova, irrational to the point of obsession love that has the heat of lust but burns for much much longer. When it's all calmed down to the point that their new partner wants them to go to the out of town superstore and help them choose curtains, they quite understandably get cold feet about the whole thing.

P.S. This might just be me.

I think some men are looking for love. But alot on here just want sex, its the same everywhere.x

I think thats true most men in there twenties are immature i would rather go out with somone in theire 30's.

dont be fooled by a mans age, there all the same at any age, well that's my experience anyway ............... xx

Yes but older men want to settele down more,

I'm definitely not old...