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you must be attracting the wrong kind of guys, in my experience, its the complete opposite.

the question posed is a bit of a sweeping generalisation no???
men arent robots.... they need love too

Men want love but they want to make love!! That is what we are served!!!!


if there are lots of females or B*tches who is just after sex or one or multiple night stands, then love become crap idea whereas making love become popular.

Tell me why should i restrict myself instead of finding many f*ck buddies.

ps. i have to admit, i am a bit stupid bcoz i still reckon that there is true love at somewhere and i am still searching it!!!!

I'm a love robot..

seriously! I can do the proper robot dance as well!!

seriously (really), I think that most men have a lot of love to give. I know I do, it's true that some of them are not willing to show their feelings and all that.
Theres also the whole issue with love and sex being inter-related on a subconscious, anthropological level. Consider lust, and the wierd things it does to people (women included). Ramblingly there is no answer.......people have love to give, don't ask me how to find them!

Seriously though.....I'm a robot!

I can only presume I'm very lucky. I've never been 'played'. I've only ever gone out with men that have no problem showing their feelings and been very loving. It's why I find threads like this, and women bitching about men so difficult to take.

I imagine just as many guys as girls want love, only it's harder for guys to admit it, even to themselves.

Men are socially and culturally conditioned to believe that to be real 'men' they should be sexually predatory and try to get laid as often and by as many women as possible. Can you imagine Mr Average sitting in a pub with his mates and saying, "All I want is to fall in love." No, nor can I; he wouldn't, because he'd get the piss ripped out of him forever. On the other hand it'd be fine if he said he was going to go up to that stranger at the bar and try to get her back to his place for a one-nighter.

I'm not saying that one attitude is 'bad' and the other is 'good' but the lack of honesty about things annoys me a bit. I've met a couple of guys who can't decide whether they want the one-on-one long term love thing or the clubbing and pulling thing; or rather, they do know - deep down - but don't like to say.

(This is my first ever time on the forum so be nice to me!)
I think like everyone all men are different. Some men are simply out for all they can get as fast as they can get it and others are simply after the love of a good woman, i.e. the players and the good guys.
I think there is a lot of peer pressure on men to be players and be real men, simply going out with their mates and pulling some random girl in a pub or club. The more girls you pull the bigger man you are. I get a lot of stick for not being like that because that is not me.
Not all men are players, some of us are nice genuine guys looking for love and relationship.

very true .......


and welcome to the forum

I see from the OP profile she's 18 and tbh I wasn't in it for love at that age.
My first longer relationship was at 22.
But that's just me.

The right guys want love, the assholes want sex. The real question should be 'why do so many women put up with those kinda guys?'