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Home >> Love & Relationships >> Which is betterr,being single or in a relationship?
10.10.2008, 06:20 quote
I should imagine most people are probably here for a relationship, so will probably say that. I've always been single, so has to be that for me 
Welcome to the boards, hope you have more luck then me 
10.10.2008, 06:32 quote
excuse the digression, but in your profile, you listed your appearance as "Caribbean" and you're black! all blacks are African. Go correct that and i'll be obliged to answer your question 
11.10.2008, 05:39 quote
I think its better to stay single rather than staying with a wrong man but I can't say single hood is better than being engaged if its the man you love.
11.10.2008, 09:50 quote
| bbones wrote: |
| excuse the digression, but in your profile, you listed your appearance as "Caribbean" and you're black! all blacks are African. Go correct that and i'll be obliged to answer your question |
???????
If research is correct the entire human race can find its evolutionary roots in Africa so by your argument we should all put African.
Wishingonastar puts her appearance as Caribbean. I would guess this is because she is, or her family is from that area. If she doesn't see herself as African then what business is it of yours or anyone else's?
11.10.2008, 10:19 quote
| choochi0 wrote: | ||
??????? If research is correct the entire human race can find its evolutionary roots in Africa so by your argument we should all put African. Wishingonastar puts her appearance as Caribbean. I would guess this is because she is, or her family is from that area. If she doesn't see herself as African then what business is it of yours or anyone else's? |
this is about appearance not nationality. its like you stating that you look european lol your appearance is caucasian and your nationality is european lol lemme go check on wan90's profile and see if her appearance says welsh lmao
11.10.2008, 10:38 quote
| bbones wrote: | ||||
this is about appearance not nationality. its like you stating that you look european lol your appearance is caucasian and your nationality is european lol lemme go check on wan90's profile and see if her appearance says welsh lmao |
I repeat. If she doesn't see herself as African then what business is it of yours or anyone else's?
The point I'm making is that labels are just boxes to put someone in and what is the point of them on a dating website? Maybe I'm not looking hard enough, but I don't see a search engine that asks for ethnic appearance.
Especially for someone who has a picture for everyone else to see what they look like. Why does she have to conform to your standards?
11.10.2008, 10:52 quote
| choochi0 wrote: |
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I repeat. If she doesn't see herself as African then what business is it of yours or anyone else's? The point I'm making is that labels are just boxes to put someone in and what is the point of them on a dating website? Maybe I'm not looking hard enough, but I don't see a search engine that asks for ethnic appearance. Especially for someone who has a picture for everyone else to see what they look like. Why does she have to conform to your standards? |
i agree with u on the bolded bit. the options are stupid. why does she have to conform? lol i dont know, i just felt to be mean that morning ..
oh and its a buisness of everyone elsesbcuz she's on a dating site
11.10.2008, 11:18 quote
Back on topic.
I can say that in my opinion. I very much enjoy being single. Most of the time, but I sometimes do wish I was in a relationship - even just to be reminded what it's like!
Then again if I was in any kind of relationship at the moment I would probably say I very much enjoy that, most of the time, but sometimes I do wish I was single.
I think its a grass seems to be greener on the other side kind of predicament.
11.10.2008, 11:30 quote
| choochi0 wrote: |
| Back on topic.
I can say that in my opinion. I very much enjoy being single. Most of the time, but I sometimes do wish I was in a relationship - even just to be reminded what it's like! Then again if I was in any kind of relationship at the moment I would probably say I very much enjoy that, most of the time, but sometimes I do wish I was single. I think its a grass seems to be greener on the other side kind of predicament. |
Ditto Vanda ........
11.10.2008, 11:35 quote
It is a definite grass is greener sort of thing. When you're single you want to be in a relationship and when you're in a relationship you want to be single again. Go figure!
Personally at the moment i would like to be in a relationship....and i know just the man 
11.10.2008, 11:36 quote
| bbones wrote: |
| excuse the digression, but in your profile, you listed your appearance as "Caribbean" and you're black! all blacks are African. Go correct that and i'll be obliged to answer your question |
Worked many times in the "Caribbean" Trinidad for instance has a 60% Indian population....spots not feathers....courtesy of the Empire I guess and it's colonial exploitation... number of black Mac's there..Scottish ministers with Bibles in one hand and cawks in the other I suspect...aye..we did hypocrisy best of all...
11.10.2008, 12:09 quote
| colkitto wrote: | ||
Worked many times in the "Caribbean" Trinidad for instance has a 60% Indian population....spots not feathers....courtesy of the Empire I guess and it's colonial exploitation... number of black Mac's there..Scottish ministers with Bibles in one hand and cawks in the other I suspect...aye..we did hypocrisy best of all... |
Ah yes, the stories my dad has told me about the Nuns at his Catholic school as he was growing up. for all their teachings about the love of God - They were vicious with a cane.
11.10.2008, 12:20 quote
| choochi0 wrote: | ||||
Ah yes, the stories my dad has told me about the Nuns at his Catholic school as he was growing up. for all their teachings about the love of God - They were vicious with a cane. |
Yep ........ i went to a catholic school and was taught by those creatures
11.10.2008, 12:31 quote
I have to agree with what alot of you have said: being in a relationship is only better if it is with the right person. I really want a serious relationship and have no interest in one off's, but it has to be special. I think being with someone just for the sake of it is really dangerous. I recently dated a girl who was mad about me, and although I liked her, I could'nt see it lasting, so I called it off. Starting thing's as a freindship first would be great.
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