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23.08.2006, 23:23 quote

Anonymous

i'd do nothing, i trust people im with , i know if it was who was being flirted with the guy would be told straight im taken if they carry well that's where some action would be taken Very Happy UT

 

24.08.2006, 08:14 quote

Aradon
Aradon Joined: 10 Aug 2006 Posts: 3097 Location: United Kingdom, England, Suffolk
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I think the out come of the situtation varies greatly. Personally i'm a very trusting guy, and I tend to like to know my partner from cover to cover, if I knew she liked to flirt then i'd just watch and smile to myself, happy in the knowledge it was me she was going home with. The only time I would intervene is if something was developing out of it, like them making a bee-line for the door LMAO or if she made it clear she wasn't interested and they weren't taking no for an answer.

 

24.08.2006, 09:43 quote

mcw82
mcw82 Joined: 17 Nov 2005 Posts: 194 Location: United Kingdom, England, Cumbria
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It would completly dependon who i was with. as trace said its all down to trust. i prob wouldnt say anything unless he really tried to kiss or grope etc but even then i know that i wouldnt get the chance todo anything cos shed most likely have twatted him herself!

Id still be a bit uneasy thoughm but from a distance!
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24.08.2006, 10:46 quote

PrincessTamz
PrincessTamz Joined: 15 Feb 2006 Posts: 470 Location: United Kingdom, England, Essex
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LOL I think I'd standby and watch and laugh similar to what AP said... however it if got too much I would step in.....and probably A) introduce myself and let her know who's boss, B) Lump her one!!! or C) If she was cute tell her that the only way she's going home tonight with my man is to come along with the pair of us! Twisted Evil

 

24.08.2006, 11:04 quote

Anonymous

ScotsDave wrote:
Now Ladies and Gents truth time again, don't you just hate that line I'll set the scene right, your out with your partner club or pub whichever and a stranger is making a real big play for her/him and they know you are there how would you react, say something do nothing get pissed of or just worry or maybe do nothing. It would be cool for your honest answers I know you will give them anyway, I am sure we have all suffered this go one I know you want to tell Smile This is just fun remember! but play by the rules.


I will admit to pangs of jealousy but would do/say nothing. If I was in a good relationship I know it'd be me he'd be coming home with and therefore wouldn't matter. However, if i felt that he was encouraging the other person,not making it clear he was with someone and made a habit of it, then I'd start to wonder if I was with the right person.

 

24.08.2006, 11:39 quote

Anonymous

Id sit back and watch, laugh it up. If she has any sense she will get a free drink off the approaching person, then come over and sit next to me.

Why be all jealous and stuff, if they turn round and leave with the other person, your better off without. The real test comes when its your turn and you find out if your allowed the harmless fun you have let go.

 

24.08.2006, 12:53 quote

kathy923
kathy923 Joined: 24 Apr 2006 Posts: 454 Location: United Kingdom, England, Greater Manchester
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i'd kiss my partner, make it obvious who he was with and then c what happened after that. if the other person had any sense they'd leave him alone, if not it'd b amusing watching them try.

 

24.08.2006, 13:16 quote

Anonymous

ArktikMunkey wrote:

Why be all jealous and stuff, if they turn round and leave with the other person, your better off without. The real test comes when its your turn and you find out if your allowed the harmless fun you have let go.


Any jealousy I feel should be completely unfounded, that's why I would say/do nothing. I'm aware that the vast majority of the time I don't need to be jealous and in fact it pees me off that I do get pangs of it. It's when somebody lets that emotion overtake their senses that it becomes a problem.

 

24.08.2006, 13:56 quote

ScotsDave
ScotsDave Joined: 08 Aug 2006 Posts: 1073 Location: United Kingdom, England, Greater Manchester
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redoctober wrote:


Any jealousy I feel should be completely unfounded, that's why I would say/do nothing. I'm aware that the vast majority of the time I don't need to be jealous and in fact it pees me off that I do get pangs of it. It's when somebody lets that emotion overtake their senses that it becomes a problem.




Is not jealousy a natural emution to have! for people to deny it I feel is to be fooling themsleves(just a little bit Wink ). The problum is how much jealousy you have, thats the killer i feel. I felt a little jealous when this happened in the past to me at a club of course i did. Also its now you react as well, that counts.! Thanks for all the honest answers! Smile

 

24.08.2006, 18:55 quote

Anonymous

mcw82 wrote:
It would completly dependon who i was with. as trace said its all down to trust. i prob wouldnt say anything unless he really tried to kiss or grope etc but even then i know that i wouldnt get the chance todo anything cos shed most likely have twatted him herself!
Id still be a bit uneasy thoughm but from a distance!
Ah you know me so well!

 

24.08.2006, 19:03 quote

ScotsDave
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Aurora27uk wrote:
mcw82 wrote:
It would completly dependon who i was with. as trace said its all down to trust. i prob wouldnt say anything unless he really tried to kiss or grope etc but even then i know that i wouldnt get the chance todo anything cos shed most likely have twatted him herself!
Id still be a bit uneasy thoughm but from a distance!
Ah you know me so well!




A lady might get upset if you were to interfere thinking she could'nt look after herself!

 

24.08.2006, 19:18 quote

Anonymous

ScotsDave wrote:
Aurora27uk wrote:
mcw82 wrote:
It would completly dependon who i was with. as trace said its all down to trust. i prob wouldnt say anything unless he really tried to kiss or grope etc but even then i know that i wouldnt get the chance todo anything cos shed most likely have twatted him herself!
Id still be a bit uneasy thoughm but from a distance!
Ah you know me so well!




A lady might get upset if you were to interfere thinking she could'nt look after herself!
She might get upset if she thought you didn't care too.

 

24.08.2006, 19:26 quote

ScotsDave
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Aurora27uk wrote:
ScotsDave wrote:
Aurora27uk wrote:
mcw82 wrote:
It would completly dependon who i was with. as trace said its all down to trust. i prob wouldnt say anything unless he really tried to kiss or grope etc but even then i know that i wouldnt get the chance todo anything cos shed most likely have twatted him herself!
Id still be a bit uneasy thoughm but from a distance!
Ah you know me so well!




A lady might get upset if you were to interfere thinking she could'nt look after herself!
She might get upset if she thought you didn't care too.



do a little but not to much then, opens more questions I fear! Smile

 
 
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