Most guys I chat to only want the flirty fun chats, but there r very few out there who want a nice normal chat,they're very rare in my own experience.

I do reply to most messages but not to the silly ones like "show us ur tits"

Well it's not the best way to get a reply now is it?

Obviously I can only speak for me but I don't care for material things as they can be worked for as a couple,I also don't have material needs.

I could say love but then that's what everyone needs so apart from that:

Honesty
Trust
Romance
Affection
Humour

love is something that comes from all of those because it's what usualy happens,but making love is more important to me then a quick shag all the time.

So there we go

Thanks jameslore its nice to know there are some true genuine ones out there somewhere

Stuff like honesty is really a matter of faith and anyway people view honesty in different ways. Best you can hope for is, if there was something u needed to know they'd tell you sooner rather than later. People naturally worry and keep things to themselves for a while.

What I value most is to be understood, be considered and accepted as I am. Accepting people as they are, you can encourage them, but you can't push or force them to be different. Someone that forces me into situations I'm not keen on without a reason thats acceptable to me...well it doesnt go down well.

Imho everyone has their quirks of behaviour and understanding their motivation or nature goes a long way towards making a better relationship.

my other half for instance has a alarming habit of sabotaging her own plans. Usually ones that prevent us spending time together. It would easy and not unreasonable, with a less familiar person to jump to the conclusion the plans were merely a excuse. In reality my other half is quite whimsical. An unplanned chain of events leads to the original plans going awry. These things happen, it's just how she is.

in that respect you can also say we want to be loved
flaws and all.

To tell the truth , I like the real thing, I´m what you can call a hopeless romantic..

I still believe there is my soulmate out there, i just havent found her yet.

I dont have that much of a luck on my love life latelly. People either take advantage of me for some reason or they are just after onenighters :S

oh well, thats life i guess, i know i´m not the best looking guy in the world, but all people have feeling, and men, do have feeling too, not just women..


So I guess the perfect woman, should be first of all, Honest. Honest with herself and honest to other people. Second, dont cook up stories, that they will get caught ... ( yeah, that happens to me alot )

Third , if the goal is to be with someone.. have something in comun, that is a must. Other than that, sure, looks are a bit important, companionship, and mutual Love

ME!!.......I wish
they only want me on cam or fantasy, not me in the real world

that's easily proved..

Take a man's dog away ( if he has one ) you'll see feelings then !!
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Men want an easy life, perhaps they want to have a woman that acts like a whore in the bedroom but acts like a lady just out of finishing school in any other social situation.

Obviously these arent my personal perferences you understand