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27.01.2008, 10:02 quote

LittleVixen
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Most guys I chat to only want the flirty fun chats, but there r very few out there who want a nice normal chat,they're very rare in my own experience. Confused

I do reply to most messages but not to the silly ones like "show us ur tits" Rolling Eyes

Well it's not the best way to get a reply now is it? Exclamation
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27.01.2008, 10:20 quote

Anonymous

LittleVixen wrote:


I do reply to most messages but not to the silly ones like "show us ur tits" Rolling Eyes

so is that why you didnt reply to me then? (just joshing with you) Laughing

 

04.05.2008, 16:28 quote

jameslore

Obviously I can only speak for me but I don't care for material things as they can be worked for as a couple,I also don't have material needs.

I could say love but then that's what everyone needs so apart from that:

Honesty
Trust
Romance
Affection
Humour

Sex is something that comes from all of those because it's what usualy happens,but making love is more important to me then a quick shag all the time.

So there we go

 

04.05.2008, 18:24 quote

LittleVixen
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Thanks jameslore its nice to know there are some true genuine ones out there somewhere
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04.05.2008, 22:59 quote

jameslore

LittleVixen wrote:
Thanks jameslore its nice to know there are some true genuine ones out there somewhere


Awww ty

I think a lot more men are looking for things like me but all the peer pressure can get to you and you end up doing stuff just to fit in.

 

01.06.2008, 14:08 quote

browolf
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Stuff like honesty is really a matter of faith and anyway people view honesty in different ways. Best you can hope for is, if there was something u needed to know they'd tell you sooner rather than later. People naturally worry and keep things to themselves for a while.

What I value most is to be understood, be considered and accepted as I am. Accepting people as they are, you can encourage them, but you can't push or force them to be different. Someone that forces me into situations I'm not keen on without a reason thats acceptable to me...well it doesnt go down well.

Imho everyone has their quirks of behaviour and understanding their motivation or nature goes a long way towards making a better relationship.

my other half for instance has a alarming habit of sabotaging her own plans. Usually ones that prevent us spending time together. It would easy and not unreasonable, with a less familiar person to jump to the conclusion the plans were merely a excuse. In reality my other half is quite whimsical. An unplanned chain of events leads to the original plans going awry. These things happen, it's just how she is.

in that respect you can also say we want to be loved
flaws and all.

 

03.07.2008, 14:04 quote

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angellus28 Joined: 09 Jun 2008 Posts: 29 Location: United Kingdom, Scotland, Aberdeenshire
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To tell the truth , I like the real thing, I´m what you can call a hopeless romantic..

I still believe there is my soulmate out there, i just havent found her yet.

I dont have that much of a luck on my love life latelly. People either take advantage of me for some reason or they are just after onenighters :S

oh well, thats life i guess, i know i´m not the best looking guy in the world, but all people have feeling, and men, do have feeling too, not just women..


So I guess the perfect woman, should be first of all, Honest. Honest with herself and honest to other people. Second, dont cook up stories, that they will get caught ... ( yeah, that happens to me alot )

Third , if the goal is to be with someone.. have something in comun, that is a must. Other than that, sure, looks are a bit important, companionship, and mutual Love Wink

 

03.07.2008, 18:28 quote

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PerfectWomanProj wrote:
Hi!
What would you say if you had to describe your perfect woman? What if you could really get what you ask for?


i'd be happy with a woman who's interested in me rather than my wallet / bank balance, can understand my rediculously warped sense of humour and can accept the way i think about things without getting fed up !

If that's not possible, can i have my favourite actress Zooey Deschanel instead?
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04.07.2008, 10:07 quote

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angellus28 Joined: 09 Jun 2008 Posts: 29 Location: United Kingdom, Scotland, Aberdeenshire
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s6boystu wrote:
PerfectWomanProj wrote:
Hi!
What would you say if you had to describe your perfect woman? What if you could really get what you ask for?


i'd be happy with a woman who's interested in me rather than my wallet / bank balance, can understand my rediculously warped sense of humour and can accept the way i think about things without getting fed up !

If that's not possible, can i have my favourite actress Zooey Deschanel instead?



x2 Wink

That is so true ... same here, latelly I only get women like that, They are only with me because I take them to dinner, to the movies and stuff, other that that, they tottaly dont give a damm about me.

 

04.07.2008, 11:40 quote

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ME!!.......I wish Sad
they only want me on cam or fantasy, not me in the real world Confused
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04.07.2008, 19:03 quote

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angellus28 wrote:
and men, do have feeling too, not just women..


NO... Surprised
Prove it!
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08.07.2008, 18:45 quote

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that's easily proved..

Take a man's dog away ( if he has one ) you'll see feelings then !!
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27.07.2008, 09:56 quote

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Bliss23 wrote:
angellus28 wrote:
and men, do have feeling too, not just women..


NO... Surprised
Prove it!


Look a sad face Sad Can you get any greater highlighting of male feelings than that!!!

 

27.07.2008, 17:55 quote

Teggro
Joined: 31 May 2007 Posts: 480 Location: United Kingdom, England, West Midlands
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s6boystu wrote:
that's easily proved..

Take a man's dog away ( if he has one ) you'll see feelings then !!



Show boobies and you'll see feelings then.




I think a more appropriate question is "What do women want?".

 

27.07.2008, 18:03 quote

jambojam

Men want an easy life, perhaps they want to have a woman that acts like a whore in the bedroom but acts like a lady just out of finishing school in any other social situation.

Obviously these arent my personal perferences you understand Twisted Evil

 
 
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