i think first of all,COMMITMENT
When theres commitment from both parties then we are ok we that,and then
TRUST
i think,no man is trustworthy unless/except you win it.then you start asking how do you win it or how do men win trust from thier partners,its just by believing in them knowing fully well that they can or are liable to be running around with other chicks,and when you give them that freedom and trust,they tend to feel guilty and sorry when they are about to do something wrong.
COMMUNICATION
most people/ladies don,t know this but in a relationship communication is important,and so when you call him telling him how much you love or miss him,it gives him assurance and makes him happy,to know that theres is someone that really cares about him,and then it definitely got to be costant communication and then you tell each other what counts,what you really feel.
lastly LOVE itself
if you don,t really love him,but you are staying with him for one thing or the other,damn!!! you are fooling yourself cos we men,if you are with us due to love/MONEY/and other material oriented or lust oriented perspective,then you will loose cos when he is due with you,he will leave you like you change your pants,and the the money part,when a guy spends more than he should on you,then it comes at a higher price and that love.SO i tell you be wary of who you choose.there was this beautiful girl i liked i wrote a letter to tell her how i feel about her,and when i went to meet her to get an answer,i found out that the beauty i see on her is just a mere beauty and that her heart is not as lovely as her looks so if you know theres someone that truly loves you,don,t hesitate to grab him or tell him how much you love him..

Excuse me for cutting in. Don't have anything important to say on this topic, but I shall put a quote here: "Never let a stranger in your cab, in your house or in your heart... unless he is a friend of labor. " - Jack Nicholson - Hoffa

Dunno if it makes any sense. But if y'all allow me to babble some more, I'd say it really comes down to 2 things. Either thinkin' positive and attractin' good things, either takin' Tom Cruise's example monologue from Magnolia and make others "respect the c*ck/p*ssy". That's about it. And if you choose neither of the ways then you leave yourself to destiny. And that ain't under any sort of control. Could be good, could be bad... This probably has nothing to do with the topic and probably nobody will understand it, but it might have something to do with the last BOLD post.

Its not bold anymore.....

http://www.flirtbox.com/dating/cazzabee.html

That would do me

Not to be told to tell the truth only to be asked two seconds later if the outfit is nice and getting irate at the answer that was given.

"Not to be told to tell the truth only to be asked two seconds later if the outfit is nice and getting irate at the answer that was given."

Isn't that called "Telling the kind of truth that they want to hear"??

i thought this thread was about the perfect woman, ....not trust

i want a chilli con carne, i dont know about all the other men..

That reminds me of the phrase:

EvErYbOdY ShOuLd BeLiEvE In SoMeThInG... I BeLiEvE I'LL HaVe A DrInK.