if you met somebody pretty quickly after a bad relationship that was doomed to end and had been going bad for the last yr= or so do you think it could work or would it just b a rebound thing?

well anybodys views would b kool right now

I totally think you need to give it a chance to work, and possibly learn from previous mistakes

its been two year now and i want to start dating ijust get thrown towards men who got baggage

bless you louby i'd been seperated 9 years ... (dated a few bams in between ) your time will come

thanks claudia i sure hope so i do deserve it

When I seperated from my ex-wife 5yrs ago I pretty much went straight into a new relationship within weeks of seperating but it only lasted a month I know now that if it ever happened again I would definately wait, it just won't work jumping straight into a new relationship.

Ive been seperated from my ex for nearly 3 years now, since we have split i have had a few relationships,all with men that are useless and not good for me at all. I think i should have waited as now i have had a longish break from men, i now know what i want and dont want.... I think jumping straight in to a relationship from another is not a good thing as you havnt had time to enjoy your own time and space.[/quote]

I know what you are saying is bang on but I get so lonely without a man lol i keep saying im gonna have time with just me and the kids (and dogs,birds) but it only lasts a couple weeks and I want someone to love me. boo hoo poor me lol

Everybody has baggage of some sort.

i know

I'm not all that long out of a relationship, one that lasted almost 2 years, and I'm in no hurry whatsoever to go getting serious with anyone right now. I'm just focusing on myself and things I want to do, but also trying to remain open to an interesting person that might change my mind.