guess who's still single !!

i am actually tempted to go see a 'shrink' to find out whats wrong with me, cos obviously i'm doing something flippin wrong
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Aww sorry to hear that Stu. Not always an issue of doing something wrong though, more about having compatible personality traits I reckon or not having a shared vision of your future.

Sorry to hear it didnt work out for you Stu.
Depends on what went wrong, and why you are still single, but a shrink you most prolly dont need, sounds like it simply didnt work out, these things happen!
Better luck next time! x

good lord if i have to wait for someone with a similar personality to mine i think i'll be waiting a very long time !!

As for what went wrong, i'm not entirely sure - but she made it perfectly clear it was my fault !
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Ah. Well, depending on what that perceived 'fault' was (and no I'm not nosey enough to ask!) if you think long and hard and agree it was your fault, use that to learn from your mistake next time, or take it with a pinch of salt, people are often good at blaming the other person when they want out!! and dont carry it around as your personal burden.

you give very good advise ! thanks
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you mean there really are angels about ?? opposites attract and all that
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Thought i'd drag this one back up.. as i'm feeling quite pleased with myself..

'she' started flirting with me again and has been all day, then she asked me out for a drink tonight..

my reply.. Sorry.. i'm busy washing my hair. ( )

I'm sooo not gonna go there again ( if i keep telling myself i'll believe it )

Apparently, the reason it was my fault it ended last time was for backing off and leaving her to her ex - even though she was 'testing' me to see how much i actually liked her - not what she told me last year !!

sooo not into games any more.. especially not those type.

crazy thing is.. i feel guilty about it
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Well I said I'd get back to this one. On first reading I thought yep good that you didn't meet up, but something was nagging at me so I didn't comment straight away.

You said you are so not into games anymore and assuming that the all day flirting wasn't all one way that's pretty much what you were doing if you were heading towards the washing your hair bit for some time. Possibly why you feel guilty as well as quite pleased, both fairly understandable.

I wouldn't put much stock in her reason for it ending tbh.

There was no 'return flirting' from my side, i'm rubbish at flirting so i tend to steer clear of it, actually, i'm rubbish at most things.. hence i don't do a great deal..
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Hey Stu - I had a baaaaaaaad feeling about this one right from the start - as you may have noticed!


Sounds like she ain't changed since last september - gosh nearly a year ago, why is she suddenly flirting with you again?

Her so-called 'test' and blaming you for failing it, is one of the oldest tricks in the book - give her a wide berth, get out more and meet someone else!