is there any women that would date a single dad i seem to get treated like a leper they all run from me

There are some who wont but plenty who will. Good luck

the thing with dating at our age.. (no offence) is that by this time in life we all seem to have baggage, weather it is single mums or single dads, or just singles with issues, when it comes to dating someone with kids there are a hell of a lot of variables to take into account.. will my kids like her, will she like my kids, will i like her , will she like me, will i like her kids, will my kids like her kids, will her kids like me, will her kids like my kids... sort af a lot more complicated than just the .. he she looks cute, ill gop over and say hi, and she either says hi , or marry off in return... you know what i mean

I would abselutely date a single dad.
as long as he was done with their mum for good.