why love one when you can love them all so is it ?

Yep, simple as that really.

i like your style !

I don't want a relationship at the moment because i'm scared of being hurt.

I do want a relationship because I really like a guy and I care about him. *shrugs*

Not really a fine line at all, love is more emotional than sexual (sex is a bonus in love).

Lust is selfish and purely about the persons sexual craving.

Either way, both lust & love are good.

Yep, I do "fall in lust" occasionally (it is selfish, but hey - I am selfish).

Id never lust over someone else if I was in a relationship (Id much rather have that than lust)

We all fall 'in lust'....

True, but in a relationship people should have some self control and resist lusts tempations

in the perfect world maybe

If you truly do care about the person your in a relationship with, you won't cheat.

Simple as that.

Well having read what has been said so far I would say that if you have true love then you would die for that person because it is unconditional love giving your self fully to the one you love. I see so many relationships out side of marridge and it comes down to get married and it ends so quickly it makes me cry. because marridge is about unconditional love. I am devorced but it is not till now that I truely understand what marridge is about. many people are willing to go with many people beforer they marry but that is another problem that ever time we sleep with someone you leave part of us with them and if you keep do that it leave you empty inside. That also can leave you emotionaly broken. And you then are trying to form a relationship. I agree lust for men is the hardest thing to deal with the womans body is made to be very beautiful to make man interested and to over come lust can be the hardest thing. Lots of people say they need sex to make througth life because your mind is full of all the images of what you have seen on the television magerzines and other place you might have been look at some very beautiful woman as she walks down the road. but if you have strength of mind then you can deal with this lust issue and you won't be unfaithful

Andrew