Interesting ........ even if he did not hurt you 'on purpose' the row must have been getting physical for him to have hurt your arm.

How did your friend get involved in order for her to drag you along to the police station? Did you tell her? Did she see what had happened? Was your injury so bad that it was obvious to her?

I have no opinion on what you posted as yet - a litle more information maybe?

you could go back to the police n talk to them about this also let him know you been to the police and if he wants you back kool if not its a lesson to be learnt

I don't go for this 'men shouldn't hit women' just cos they are a woman! People shouldn't hurt people whoever they are!

Saying that, I know all to well how an argument can get out of hand, and if you were bruised purely as a result of his grabbing your arm because you wouldn't leave after he'd asked you to, then going to the police was extreme in the least. I wouldn't want you back!!!

If it was deliberately physical, take another look at what you are involving yourself in!

If it was purely accidental and he was attempting to get you out to avoid confrontation, then understand that your methods of communicating with him weren't impressing him and he will be having second thoughts about how you two will be able to get on when you disagree.

It was silly going to the Police if it was non violent, it's only been a five month relationship as you say, but if he has a lot of feeling for you, he will appreciate you resolving what you have done by doing what's right, and apologising, talking to him calmly and sorting out where you two go from now. You need to inform the Police exactly what did take place, and if he was violent, it needs to be recorded by them, if it wasn't, then you be best to clear it up with them.

If it was deliberate violence, you are out, and stay out.