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30.03.2007, 20:33 quote

loubylou
loubylou Joined: 28 Oct 2006 Posts: 1722 Location: United Kingdom, England, North Yorkshire
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i tried this knowing not to get attached when i was younger to find he did!! i left the relationship as i didnt find it appealing it was just too confusing ppls views plz

 

30.03.2007, 20:34 quote

Hugglies
Hugglies Joined: 21 Aug 2006 Posts: 2472 Location: United Kingdom, England, London
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Never tried it

Dont think I could handle it
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30.03.2007, 20:35 quote

Anonymous

I personally could not do it.

 

30.03.2007, 22:36 quote

pirakkanaama2
pirakkanaama2 Joined: 30 Dec 2006 Posts: 1888 Location: United Kingdom, England, Leicestershire
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dont know, depends if its like anyone can join at any time, or if its just like 3 people no more
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31.03.2007, 08:25 quote

Anonymous

Nope its not for me either, I need exclusivity with a bf/partner etc...no sharing. Fuck that, its infidelity simple as that.

 

31.03.2007, 10:57 quote

loubylou
loubylou Joined: 28 Oct 2006 Posts: 1722 Location: United Kingdom, England, North Yorkshire
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well i do prefer exclusivity in relationships but i met this guy at a time where i really couldnt deal with being in a relationship tbh so it seemed ideal but yes i did find it puzzling to say the least!!

 

31.03.2007, 14:14 quote

Anonymous

Yeah have tried that and it made me feel miserable, i cant handle stuff like that, give me a normal relationship anyday Smile

 

31.03.2007, 14:17 quote

Anonymous

makes me feel under-valued Confused

 

31.03.2007, 18:55 quote

Anonymous

danni82 wrote:
I personally could not do it.



Me neither ... and Kev says No feckn chance hes not sharing me with anybody ... ( NB... were catching up on the posts together) heehee

 

31.03.2007, 19:00 quote

Anonymous

cheekyeyes wrote:
danni82 wrote:
I personally could not do it.



Me neither ... and Kev says No feckn chance hes not sharing me with anybody ... ( NB... were catching up on the posts together) heehee


Ha ha ha yeah no sharing being the opritive word. In my personal opinion it would make me sick to my stomach knowing that my partner had sex with another woman, and i would never be able to sleep with them again as i would feel violated so to speak knowing that such a deep act as love making had been done with someone else other than me lol

 

31.03.2007, 19:02 quote

Anonymous

my thought EXACTLY

 

31.03.2007, 19:14 quote

Sveno
Sveno Joined: 03 Feb 2007 Posts: 66 Location: United Kingdom, England, East Yorkshire
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loubylou wrote:
i tried this knowing not to get attached when i was younger to find he did!! i left the relationship as i didnt find it appealing it was just too confusing ppls views plz


I'm the same as most people on here.. Couldn't do it.. wouldn't do it..

Just having one woman would be enough for me

 

31.03.2007, 23:28 quote

Anonymous

fidelity all the way for me! And HONESTY! (which is something that is sadly missing from too many peoples vocab!!!)

 

03.04.2007, 13:39 quote

Anonymous

ditto polly!

 

03.04.2007, 18:45 quote

Greystone
Greystone Joined: 28 Mar 2007 Posts: 431 Location: United Kingdom, England, London
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I wouldn't mind being in an open relationship. I think they are a good idea. At least it is better than cheating behind someones back while pretending to be faithful to them. ith an open relationship you both know where you stand from the beginning.

 
 
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