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Home >> Love & Relationships >> One Night Stand
13.08.2006, 21:48 quote
It's just love.
If people start attaching morals to it, I just remind myself that we're born to procreate.
You're free to make the choice to not procreate by abstaining from love, or by just using a contraceptive.
Let's put it this way - we're all going to die, so it's undeniably a good idea to enjoy every experience offered to you.
I'm indifferent on one-night-stands. Somebody who makes an excellent lover can be appalling in a relationship situation, and vice-versa.
14.08.2006, 05:18 quote
| ladytracexx wrote: |
| I personally do not like one night stands!! Maybe i am just a little old fashioned when it comes to that type of thing. I have high standards and values and most of all i have some self respect all of which i would like to maintain! |
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14.08.2006, 09:49 quote
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That's all good, but what in your eyes is maintaining self-respect, is in my eyes just a conscious effort to refrain from certain sexual encounters.
I have no problem with people being "old fashioned" about it, but to suggest the people who do enjoy variety don't have self-respect is just silly. Self-respect comes from within, not from who you come within.
Damn that was good.
14.08.2006, 11:36 quote
| ScotsDave wrote: |
| Please what the hell are/is "marry buddies" showing my age here. |
Basically it's a friend that the boy/girl will sleep with whenever they want to. It's kinda like a one night stand but they're already mates with the person and they agree that it's nothing more than just love - there's no commitment/relationship. Personally, i find it a bit odd cos it must be psychologically demanding - for me, it would be kinda like rejection on a regular basis. But then again i would never sleep with anyone i wasn't in a relationship with anyway...
14.08.2006, 11:47 quote
| YourManForever wrote: | ||
Basically it's a friend that the boy/girl will sleep with whenever they want to. It's kinda like a one night stand but they're already mates with the person and they agree that it's nothing more than just love - there's no commitment/relationship. Personally, i find it a bit odd cos it must be psychologically demanding - for me, it would be kinda like rejection on a regular basis. But then again i would never sleep with anyone i wasn't in a relationship with anyway... |
The general rule of thumb is there's no emotional involvement, seeing as you're just friends. Much like people who do any activity together - love just happens to have a stigmata of relationships attached to it. Some people can't remove that attachment, some people can.
The problem is, most of the people who can't, then decide that the people who can, are weird.
The problem there is, that people have been having love for fun since the dawn of time. Vicious cycle or something.
14.08.2006, 13:45 quote
swissrebel wrote
The problem is, most of the people who can't, then decide that the people who can, are weird.
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Sorry I never called anyone weird over this whatever my thoughts are not forced on anyone, they are just that my thoughts aired on this site. There was me thinking thats what you could do. I never would try and force morals on anyone either I would not have the right to say that, but by the same token why do you think that I feel those people are weird? seems that you are deciding for me? Life without memory is no life at all |
14.08.2006, 14:21 quote
| ladytracexx wrote: |
| well compared to the youngsters on here! i feel like my grandama! But never the less..... i will stand by my statement....!!! |
14.08.2006, 15:36 quote
| ScotsDave wrote: | ||
swissrebel wrote
The problem is, most of the people who can't, then decide that the people who can, are weird.
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I did say most. You're free to air your thoughts. What isn't tolerable is the judgement people will pass on others for having one-night stands.
love is something we all have that connects us. Whether you're happy to have love with one person, or many - nobody should judge it in any way. That's my problem with the 'old fashioned' view.
14.08.2006, 16:14 quote
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| love is something we all have that connects us. Whether you're happy to have love with one person, or many - nobody should judge it in any way. That's my problem with the 'old fashioned' view. |
Quite, I agree with you in everything you've said above. As I have said, and try hard to keep to, each till there own ideas?
Life without memory is no life at all
14.08.2006, 16:27 quote
| swissrebel wrote: | ||||
I did say most. You're free to air your thoughts. What isn't tolerable is the judgement people will pass on others for having one-night stands. love is something we all have that connects us. Whether you're happy to have love with one person, or many - nobody should judge it in any way. That's my problem with the 'old fashioned' view. |
Toys out of prams here
All I can add is so long as it is consenual between parties capable of understanding what that consent means then whats the problem?
Wx
14.08.2006, 16:33 quote
Toys out of prams here
All I can add is so long as it is consenual between parties capable of understanding what that consent means then whats the problem?
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No problum at all, sorry for falling toys 
Life without memory is no life at all |
20.08.2006, 17:50 quote
I've had my fair share of ONS. They fulfilled a sexual need, nothing more. I think they have their place and provided both parties are careful, see no harm in them. What I couldn't do, is make a habit of it. There's more to life than just love 
20.08.2006, 18:11 quote
| redoctober wrote: |
| I've had my fair share of ONS. They fulfilled a sexual need, nothing more. I think they have their place and provided both parties are careful, see no harm in them. What I couldn't do, is make a habit of it. There's more to life than just love |
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